If you are in a group, you can typically stand out to a guy by actually talking.
It is important that you engage in conversation with the guy.
A mistake that people in your position make is when they get quiet because the guy that they like is nearby or is interacting with the group.
If you get quiet, the guy may not even notice that you are there or he may just think that you don’t like him.
This is why it is important to engage in conversation with him.
This is the start of getting him to notice you while you are in that group.
You should ensure that you are really making some very good contributions to the conversation so that he feels that you are fully engaged.
Also find ways to relate to what he is saying.
If you have had the same experiences that he may be describing, let him know that.
Go on to tell him about your experiences as well.
This is how you begin to connect with him on a much more personal level.
It also allows for him to start feeling an emotional bond with you.
All of a sudden, this conversation has gone from relatively light to really interesting.
Again, by relating to him, you are creating a deeper connection with him and thereby standing out.
You are the one that he is most likely going to remember by the end of the conversation and beyond.
Another way that you can stand out to a guy when you are in a group is when you try to get closer to him physically and try touching him from time to time as the conversation develops.
You can touch him lightly on the arm, back, shoulder, etc., before releasing.
This is a very effective way in creating a closer physical and emotional connection to him.
He may even reciprocate without even realizing it by touching you back.
This is how you begin to make him feel so comfortable around you.
He may also start feeling as though you are someone that he can physically get closer to.
Being that there is typically a personal space barrier that most people have, he would know that he can cross that personal space barrier with you because you are being open and communicative with him through your body language.
This is how you can get him to really start paying a lot more attention to you than to the other people in the group.
Another way that you can stand out to a guy when you are in a group is when you overtly flirt with him by giving him compliments or joking with him.
The other members of your group may be too shy or hesitant to do this.
You would really stand out if you don’t act like that.
When you show a guy that you are game to play in this fashion, he would be more prone to playing along and you would get his attention.
There should be a good amount of give and take.
You shouldn’t be the only one flirting and playing this game.
If he is responding, you can keep it up to its natural conclusion.
From there, he may ultimately single you out from the group as the girl he would like to talk to one on one in the future and possibly ask out.
He may start looking forward to the next time he sees you either in the group or on your own.
By setting yourself apart from the rest through how you were interacting with him, he may want to give you more focused attention on a future encounter.
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