It’s not like you are against sexuality.

You are fairly liberal in how you look at sexuality.

That being said, a guy you are dating browses OnlyFans accounts and this has you a little worried.

You have only been on a few dates with him.

The issue isn’t that he watches porn.

Again, you have more of a liberal attitude when it comes to sexuality and expression.

What worries you has to do with the prospect of him chatting with these women on OnlyFans and developing emotional relationships with them.

This is where it goes from merely getting sexual stimulation from a woman’s pics on OnlyFans to cheating.

Chatting with these women in a sexual nature online is where you draw the line.

A guy who goes this far with his online sexual escapades crosses the line in your book.

He goes from sexual stimulation to emotional stimulation.

To you, this is cheating.

Being that these are real women online, you believe that chatting with them increases the odds he gets emotionally attached.

You have had boyfriends in the past who crossed this line and you don’t want to go through that again.

It’s wise that you draw a line between sexual stimulation and emotional stimulation.

Guys who develop emotional relationships with women on porn sites or OnlyFans through chatting with them, have a greater tendency to keep going back until an emotional affair develops.

To figure out whether you should keep going out on dates with this guy, ask him about how he uses OnlyFans.

Assuming he tells you that he only looks at pictures on it and doesn’t chat with any women, you would have to take him at his word, for now.

It’s early yet.

Until you reach a point where it is easier for you to observe whether he is constantly logging into OnlyFans and chatting with women, you would have to exercise patience.

For now, determine whether he is trustworthy to the best of your ability.

Does he work a job that requires that people put their trust in him?

Does he have friends who are upstanding?

Do these friends speak highly of him?

Does he habitually follow through on what he tells you he will do?

Who does he follow on social media?

A guy who works a job where people put a lot of trust in him is more likely to be trustworthy.

As human beings, the people we choose as friends are a reflection of who we are.

In having upstanding friends who have good reputations in society, he is most likely someone who is upstanding too.

When he follows through on what he tells you he will do, he is indicating that he is someone whose word you can trust.

Watch his social media too.

A pattern of making positive social media posts is a good sign that he is trustworthy.

The same applies to who he follows on social media.

In following social media accounts that are positive and inspirational, he gives you further insight into his outlook.

Thread lightly.

Although determining whether he is trustworthy goes a long way in ascertaining whether he told you the truth about his behavior on OnlyFans, you won’t know for certain until you get better access to him and what he does in his free time.

Keep this in mind as you go out on dates with him.