After several great dates with her, you learned that the girl you have been seeing has a boyfriend.

From what you have gathered, she doesn’t have the best relationship with him, but it doesn’t change the reality that she agreed to go out on a number of dates with you while knowing that she has a boyfriend.

It’s so disingenuous.

Until you learned about this, you were rapidly falling for this girl.

It took you several weeks to summon up the courage to ask her out.

This was after an extended period of sustained eye contact from her at work.

Asking her out was not on a whim.

It took weeks of build up.

Nonetheless, here you are.

She has a boyfriend and didn’t have the decency to tell you this beforehand.

Initially, you considered ending the courtship.

It made sense.

She knowingly chose to go out on multiple dates with you when she has a boyfriend.

This was enough of a reason to call this off and be done with her.

Nevertheless, you soon realized that doing this wasn’t that easy.

Getting those great dates out of your mind has proven difficult.

You had so much fun with her.

It has been a while since you romantically connected with a girl on this level.

By the time you went out on your first date with her, you had already developed some feelings for her.

Yes, those weeks of constantly staring at each other had caused you to develop an emotional and mental connection with her.

While doing routine tasks away from work, you would think about her.

While walking your dog, you thought about how she looked at you at work that day and how good that made you feel.

While at the gym, you heard her laughter in your ears, leaving you giddy and exhilarated.

While making dinner, you imagined what it would be like if you were cooking dinner for her at that moment and not you alone.

There was a lot of emotional and mental build up before you finally asked her out.

On top of that, the feelings grew stronger when she went out on multiple dates with you and shared so much chemistry with you.

With all this occurring, it isn’t so easy for you to cut her off, even though you now know she has a boyfriend.

There is no denying that you don’t want your time with her to end.

I know you are stuck at a crossroads.

On the one hand, you know you should end it, on the other hand, you can’t let go of how good she made you feel and the emotional bond you developed for her.

This is a grueling spot to be in, but you have to face reality.

She has a boyfriend.

Even if you know that she is having trouble in this relationship, it doesn’t erase the fact that she is emotionally wrapped up in her relationship with her boyfriend.

Dating you was her escape from the troubles she is facing with her boyfriend.

A welcome escape.

The thing is, she never left him while she was dating you.

This indicates that she continues to have feelings for him.

Unfortunately, she isn’t fully emotionally available to you and that puts you at a massive disadvantage.

No matter what you do, her boyfriend is poised to be an impediment in her mind.

Before you know it, you have wasted several months taking her out on dates, hoping she comes around to dumping her boyfriend and dating you exclusively.

This rarely works out, and it leaves a person in your position heartbroken in the end.

It’s early.

Get out of this quagmire now.