He knows he can get away with it.
He has had a history of cheating on his pretty girlfriends and has gotten away with it.
At first, she cries and pouts, telling him that the relationship is over.
But then, she comes back, wanting assurances that he won’t cheat again and taking him back.
A guy who has this happen over and over, with every consequent relationship, inevitably develops the mindset that he can cheat on his pretty girlfriends and get away with it.
So, he keeps doing it.
For him, it’s about the physical release.
He wants to get to have his cake and eat it too.
He loves the convenience of having the love and devotion of a girlfriend, but he wants the freedom to have physical intimacy with different girls.
It doesn’t matter that his girlfriend is pretty.
A pretty girlfriend doesn’t deter a man with dating options from cheating on her.
He has dating options.
Other women find him attractive.
There is temptation wherever he goes, as the eyes of multiple women follow him walking across a room, regardless of the pretty girlfriend he has in tow.
With this many dating options, he is bound to take advantage.
It isn’t hard work for him to attract women.
They come to him like bees to honey.
In the back of his mind he knows that cheating with a random woman will be forgiven by his pretty girlfriend.
This is what all of his pretty girlfriends have done in the past.
So he cheats and does so without conscience.
He has told himself that none of these girls mean anything to him.
His relationship with them is strictly physical.
This is how he gets to play the role of boyfriend without a guilty conscience.
Men have it easier when it comes to compartmentalizing sex.
Women can do it to an extent, but eventually, oxytocin, which is a bonding hormone produced in the hypothalamus of the brain, takes over, and she becomes attached to the man she is sleeping with.
Men aren’t as susceptible to this when they are sleeping around and cheating on their pretty girlfriends.
Knowing that he doesn’t have to worry about emotional attachment, he cheats on his pretty girlfriend with abandon and has the nerve to tell her that those girls mean nothing to him when she inevitably finds out.
Never ever mislead yourself with the notion that being pretty exempts you from getting cheated on.
In getting into an exclusive relationship with a man who has dating options, you mustn’t put your foot off the gas and sleepwalk through it, believing your beauty is enough.
This is taking your relationship with him for granted.
For a guy who is constantly surrounded by temptation wherever he goes, with women drawn to him, having this attitude is akin to playing with fire.
This doesn’t mean you adopt the behavior of a nightmarish girlfriend who watches his every move.
But you two must constantly work on keeping your relationship multilayered, growing as partners and individuals in tandem, while maintaining consistent, healthy communication.
This narrows the temptation to cheat.
Nevertheless, you save yourself a lot of potential trouble by doing your due diligence before making him your boyfriend.
A history of cheating on his previous pretty girlfriends is a red flag.
Don’t mislead yourself into thinking that you are different and he would never cheat on you.
You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.
A history of cheating on his previous pretty girlfriends is your warning that, inevitably, you are next.
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