You haven’t had good experiences with men.

Not just men who are rude and excessively aggressive in how they approach you, but also men from your past, starting from family members to prospective lovers or actual lovers.

These bad experiences left you feeling naked, without power, vulnerable.

You like it when men hate you, knowing that it makes you feel powerful.

You got a negative reaction out of him.

He was angry, offended, sulking or looking depressed.

This excites you.

You like it.

It is payback for all the men from your past who treated you badly or unfairly.

It isn’t weird that you like it when men hate you.

For a select women who have gone through some form of abuse in life, it is how they feel empowered and exact revenge.

It isn’t healthy though.

Whatever you are doing to cause these men to hate you isn’t the solution to whatever mental trauma you are going through.

Unless it is warranted, being purposely cruel to men so as to get them to hate you isn’t healthy.

Undoubtedly, it gives you a rush.

You love the effect it has on him when you give him a hateful look or ignore him, regardless of whether he was being courteous or not.

There is a dopamine rush within whenever you affect these men negatively.

You have exacted revenge yet again.

That said, behavior like this leads to a warped sense of reality which is never good.

You instantly judge any man negatively, even though all he was doing was being kind to you without expectations.

This means you have completely ruled out having positive male figures in your life.

An absence of positive male figures in your life leaves you completely ignorant of the male perspective and this works against you.

It leaves you filled with hatred for men that isn’t warranted.

Hatred within begets more hate.

With such negative energy towards men gestating within you, just waiting to be released at the next guy you come across, it is only a matter of time before it consumes you.

When hatred consumes you, it doesn’t discriminate.

On a week where you haven’t had your daily fix in getting a man to hate you, there is dissatisfaction.

The hatred broiling within you hasn’t been released like it normally does each week.

No man has triggered that release all week and you are getting desperate.

That hatred is like a volcano within you, ready to explode.

And it does.

Only, it doesn’t explode on a guy.

You have had no luck coming across a guy to trigger it that week.

It explodes on someone close to you.

A family member or friend.

All of a sudden, you get into a fight with a sibling or a friend.

This sibling so happened to forget to return something you gave them or this friend so happened to use your laptop without your permission, and you are lashing out.

You lose it.

Yelling and screaming, you release a torrent of hatred on them, the volcano has erupted.

That is your release.

It had to come out.

You had no luck coming across men to instigate your hate that week, and now, unfortunately, you are releasing that hate on those close to you.

This is where you are headed when you maintain an attitude of liking it when men hate you.

Not only does it destroy the concept of having positive relationships with men, it hurts the relationships you have with those close to you.