Luck has nothing to do with it.

Relationships occur when two people have an attraction for each other, whether it be physical, psychological, or both.

People don’t luck into relationships.

Sure, there are serendipitous situations where you so happen to bump into someone who ultimately becomes your future partner.

But even in those situations, an attraction occurred.

Human beings aren’t robots.

We don’t have the ability to program ourselves to fall for anyone we see.

When you see a couple in public walking around, their relationship wasn’t based on luck.

Even if they initially met by bumping into each other at a coffee shop, an initial physical attraction was required, followed by conversations to see whether there was a psychological connection.

Although they so happened to bump into each other, it wasn’t luck.

She put herself in that coffee shop.

She was there with friends or there to do work on her laptop.

He put himself in that coffee shop too.

He was there with friends too or was briefly stopping by for his favorite coffee concoction before returning home.

Whatever reason they were there for, they put themselves in that coffee shop on purpose.

Then, they so happen to see each other, an attraction occurred, a conversation was had, and the rest is history.

Scenarios where a future couple initially met through bumping into each other are erroneously interpreted as luck, when luck had nothing to do with it.

The two individuals purposely put themselves in that environment.

If they had chosen to stay home, they would have never met each other.

You must be careful when you are looking at relationships as based on luck.

Every couple you see in life met somewhere they put themselves in.

At an airport, gym, post office, grocery store, doctor’s office, etc.

Yes, not every place a future couple meets is an ideal location for finding a partner, but these people were out and about living their lives when they bumped into each other.

On top of this, they connected through making eye contact and having a conversation.

They weren’t living the life of a hermit.

A relationship doesn’t drop into your life when all you do is go to work and go home.

It doesn’t happen when the few moments you are outside your home, out and about, you never make eye contact nor entertain conversation with people.

Couples you see in relationships were out and about when they met each other, as well as responsive to their environment.

They entertained conversation when the moment arrived.

Relationships don’t happen by luck.

They don’t happen when you do nothing.

They happen when you are social and receptive to people.

Think about your social life.

Do you have one?

What about how you behave when you are out and about?

Are you approachable?

As human beings, when we are having a difficult time attaining something, it is easy to put our hands up and say that we don’t have it because it is based on luck.

That takes away any responsibility on our end in terms of our actions, or a lack thereof.