In the short-term, guys are about fun and a little bit of recklessness.

City girls normally fall into this category.

Having grown up in the city, she has a party mindset and is ready for short-term fun whatever that entails.

The city is filled with temptation.

There are lots of men vying for short-term fun with her and she has her pick.

Dating a girl like this means that a guy knows he is in competition with lots of other city men.

In a bid to avoid getting too wrapped up on the girl, he keeps his dating options open too.

People who date in the cities have a much higher propensity to cheat on each other than people who date in the country.

Cities are chock-full of distractions and temptations.

As human beings, we are susceptible to this.

The city girl is great for short-term fun but when it comes to settling down, the country girl is the queen.

She didn’t grow up in the city.

She is used to a slower pace in her local town or village.

Unlike the city, there isn’t a lot of distraction or temptation.

She has had way less boyfriends and flings in her life than the city girl.

For a guy looking to settle down into a long-term committed relationship with a girl, the country girl embodies what he is looking for.

He loves that she hasn’t had a lot of boyfriends or flings, and has a country mentality.

There are lots of city girls that have found themselves in a weird predicament with their boyfriends after an sustained period of time of being together.

He loved how wild and crazy she was at the beginning of their relationship.

He probably thought that short-term fun was the only thing in the cards for them.

Unexpectedly, they ended up getting into a long-term relationship.

It’s a few years in and he is not as gung ho as he once was about the wild and crazy nature of his city girl.

He wants her to settle down and is demanding she stop going out to clubs and bars as much.

This is the dilemma city men face.

They love the idea of short-term fun with a city girl who is game for it, but detest this city mentality as time goes on, should they so happen to get into a long-term relationship with the girl.

This is when you start hearing the city girl complain that her boyfriend keeps trying to change her.

As she rebels against this, her boyfriend is lamenting the dearth of traditional women.

This is the same boyfriend who loved that she was so wild and crazy in the beginning.

Lots of city men hope that a city girl of whom they have transitioned into a serious relationship with, would have the capacity to transform into a girlfriend or wife with a country girl’s mentality.

He wants to eat his cake and have it too.

The very same girl he loved for being so fun and wild, is the same girl he expects to do a 180, now that he has gotten into a serious relationship with her.

It’s hard for a city girl to completely change her stripes.

Though she does slow down with the partying as she gets older, she isn’t about to assume the role of the traditional woman.

She pushes back against that.

She doesn’t want to stay home and take care of the kids all day.

She still wants to have a professional career and believes she should have an equal or greater say in the decision-making in the household.

These are qualities that are antithetical to a country girl.

He is weary of this pushback and wishes he never dated a city girl to begin with.

If only he had dated a country girl instead.

What he doesn’t realize is that, without changing a mindset that was intent on having short-term fun in his single days, his chances of getting a country girl to date him or sleep with him would have been incredibly slim.

A country girl would have had him court her in a traditional fashion.

This takes time and effort to do and requires patience.

The kind of patience he wouldn’t have had in his party days.