If he is showing genuine interest in you and communicating on a regular basis, he may want you.
However, you should allow the process to unfold at its own pace.
Many people make the mistake of wanting to move things along at an unnatural pace.
Perhaps you have become accustomed to relationships happening at a much quicker pace in your past.
Do understand that this is someone new.
This means that your interaction and chemistry with him may be totally different from what you have experienced in the past.
You would have to understand and come to terms with this.
If you don’t, you may begin to doubt what you already have with him and this could create a strain on the relationship.
If he is conversing with you on a regular basis and trying to learn more about you, there is a good chance that he wants you.
He is simply taking the time to get to know you so that he can be sure about what he is doing or where this may be leading.
If he is asking you out on regular dates, there is a good chance that he wants you.
The more dates he goes on with you, the more he is trying to gauge your chemistry with him.
This is all within the process of the getting to know each other.
This is a good thing.
Now, if he hasn’t been communicating much or asking for dates, he may not want you.
A lack of communication is usually indicative of a lack of interest.
This is irrespective of how good your conversations are when you do communicate.
When a guy truly wants you, he will communicate as often as he can.
He will want to get to know you more and more.
You will be constantly in his thoughts.
If he is not communicating with you regularly, you are not regularly in his thoughts.
This is normally an indication that he doesn’t want to be with you.
You may be fun to talk to and even flirt with.
However, it is all about action.
If he is not inviting you to dates or communicating on a regular basis, he is not as interested in you as you would hope.
If you have also noticed that he tends to talk to a lot of other girls, you may not be that important to him.
You may be a lot lower on his priority list.
A guy who really wants a girl will typically give her the lion’s share of his attention.
He may have other girls that he is talking to but he may make you his priority because he has found a stronger connection with you.
If he isn’t making you his priority, he may not want you.
He may keep you around because he loves the attention.
He may be that kind of guy who gets a boost to his ego every time he talks to a girl no matter how random.
However, he is not the type that wants to commit to you.
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