Why Hasn’t She Messaged Or Called Me Since The Last Time I Reached Out To Her?

When it has been at least 3 or more days since you heard from her, her interest in you is on life support, or she is playing games.

Why Hasn't She Messaged Or Called Me Since The Last Time I Reached Out To Her?If you were the one who initially called or messaged her, and she hasn’t responded, it’s not due to not receiving your message.

There is a reason why she has chosen not to respond.

She has the ability to do so if she legitimately wants to.

She has certainly been corresponding with friends and family during that time.

So we know that she has the time to get back with people that are important in her life.

Yet, she is not getting back with you.

Now, the temptation on your part would be to send her another message or make another phone call.

Avoid doing this too soon.

Sometimes, a girl tests a guy by not responding to his message or phone call for a few days.

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She is playing a game.

She does this to see whether he freaks out and blows up her phone with superfluous messages.

Once the guy falls into this trap, he has completely turned the girl off.

The guy has given her a major reason not to respond to you.

Try not to be this guy by losing your composure at this time.

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Go out and hang out with your friends.

Get involved in your hobbies.

Get active in your community.

Focus on what you have to get done at work or at school.

The idea is to keep yourself busy, so that you aren’t constantly thinking about this girl, and why she hasn’t called or messaged you back.

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A mind that gets overwhelmed with those thoughts, compels you to do something that you regret.

You are tempted to send that second message too soon and your mind justifies it.

This is the last thing that you should do at this time.

Keep yourself busy doing a variety of activities at this time, so that you aren’t thinking about her so much.

It’s conceivable that she messages you back within the week.

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If she hasn’t messaged you within the week, she is dangerously close to showing that she is not interested in you.

This is where you have license to send her one more message, if you still want to connect with this girl.

Then you leave it at that.

If she still doesn’t respond to your second message, she is most definitely not interested in you.

Although she was the one who initially agreed to give you her contact information, this is never a guarantee she is interested in you.

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She gave you her contact information to be polite.

On the flip side, she was interested in you at the time, but has since realized that she didn’t like you that much to initiate contact with you.

Again, give it at least 3 days to a week before taking any further action.

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