Instead of focusing on impressing the girl by coming up with overdone one-liners, keep your conversation with her simple at the start.

Sticking to simple topics keeps a conversation lighthearted and fun.

Avoid heavy topics like politics or religion so early.

Holding a good conversation with a girl boils down to you being comfortable enough with each other to see where it leads.

For example, if you start a conversation about pop culture, you get to keep the conversation going by letting it naturally flow into different topics outside of pop culture.

A natural flow to the conversation is key.

Having a checklist of topics that are already preset in your mind or prewritten before starting a conversation with her, can work against you.

It isn’t hard for her to tell that you are unnaturally bouncing from topic to topic as you mentally go through your checklist of topics, and this is a turn off.

In lieu of this, keep the conversation natural by sticking to one topic and letting it naturally segue into a different topic.

The environment you are in affects conversation too.

As you are talking on a topic, the environment you are in can affect where that conversation leads.

If something happens in the environment, you have a new topic to segue into from what you were previously talking about.

Right there, you have entered a new topic of discussion that is unrelated to pop culture, and it totally feels natural because it happened during the course of the conversation.

During the course of this conversation, ask good questions of the girl about herself.

Girls love talking about themselves.

Avoid coming up with elaborate and well-thought out questions.

The lighter the question, the better.

A lighter question is easier for her to answer without feeling overwhelmed by the question.

She doesn’t have to think too hard for an answer, and doesn’t have to think up a sophisticated answer.

By keeping the topic light and fun, she is comfortable as she goes about answering your questions.

Something as lighthearted as asking her about what her daily routine is is a great conversation topic.

It puts her in familiar territory as she thinks back on her day.

She talks about activities she indulged in that you identify with and relate to.

This is where you find similarities in each other, and a connection ensues.

In keeping her in familiar territory with the topics you bring up, she feels safe.

Furthermore, it makes her curious about what your daily routine is as well.

She becomes curious to know if there are any similarities in how you go about your days.

At this juncture, she feels a sense of connection to you.

The connection was established upon discovering that there is a daily activity that you mutually share.

For instance, you learn that there is gym or bakery shop that you mutually love going to.

Once this connection is made, conversation becomes so easy that you don’t have to think too hard about what to talk about.