It’s that type of attitude that may be making people not want you in the first place.
When all you can think about is this question, you will most likely go about your daily life upset or with a negative countenance.
Hence, your body language alone on a daily basis could be hampering you from getting people to want you.
You also have to ask yourself about what you have to offer to people.
If you have certain aspects of your personality that are dynamic or certain aspects of your life that are intriguing, you are better off letting them be known.
If you keep all of these hidden because you have low self-esteem and believe that people will judge you based on them, you will not be able to allow others to see more of what you are about.
When people are unable to figure you out or witness your uniqueness, you will not stand out to them and thereby they may have no interest in getting to have you in their lives as a partner.
You really have to come to terms with what you are doing and how you are behaving.
There is no real viable way to getting anyone to want you when you haven’t given them a reason to want you.
They won’t be able to see your incredible singing talent through telekinesis. They won’t be able to tell that you have a fantastic sense of humor through simply looking at you.
They won’t be able to tell your depth of knowledge about certain interesting topics by just watching you and observing your already negative body language.
In essence, if you keep hiding behind this question about people not wanting you, you will basically become your own worst enemy.
You will essentially attract that kind of negative energy back to you from other people.
Most people prefer being around other people that make them feel good. Most people prefer being around other people that they look forward to seeing because they enjoy that person’s persona and energy.
When you have a negative energy about you, most people will want to run the other way.
They will not have the wherewithal to stick around in order to discover that there is so much more to you than the negative body language they are currently witnessing.
Most people don’t have that kind of patience with other people.
So, your first impressions are so incredibly important.
If you turn people off from their initial interaction with you or their initial observation of you, they will most likely be turned off enough that they won’t be willing to give you a second appraisal.
Hence, you need to work on your body language and self-esteem.
You need to show your strengths so that people instantly get a reading for the kind of person that you are and can then start finding ways to relate to you.
This is when you will be able to establish that incredibly important initial connection with people.
Once you have established that connection, it will be much easier for you to find a partner because someone in that crowd will typically want to know more about where all of this personality came from and during that process they may grow to like you romantically.
This kind of connection also helps to give the both of you a pleasant starting point that can then blossom to a stronger understanding about what the both of you are all about.
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