The guy takes a lot longer to respond to your messages when he doesn’t want to be with you anymore.
Consistent communication with you dramatically decreases, as he contacts you a lot less.
Then he stops initiating contact altogether and leaves that to you.
This means that he isn’t thinking about you as much during the day nor does he care to know how your day is going.
He hangs around you a lot less and rarely asks you out on dates, if at all.
He commits to a meeting or a date with you, but he breaks that meeting and doesn’t follow through, coming up with an excuse that something came up or he isn’t feeling well.
In this scenario, the guy has reduced the amount of physical contact that he has with you.
He is not trying to be around you any longer.
If anything, he is actually avoiding you.
A guy doesn’t want to be with you anymore when he doesn’t make future plans with you included.
When he rarely includes you in those plans, he doesn’t see a future with you.
He is essentially creating these plans without envisioning you as the person he has these experiences with.
You hear a lot of “I” and not a lot of “We.”
This is a very effective way to know that this guy doesn’t want to be with you anymore.
He does this without realizing he is.
He doesn’t accept that his relationship with you is dying or dead.
There is a part of him in denial.
His words don’t lie.
When he is planning that holiday trip in December and he isn’t mentioning taking you with him, he doesn’t believe he will still be with you by December.
He knows this somewhere within him but keeps himself from accepting it.
When he doesn’t talk about taking you to that concert or convention that he has been planning to go to for the whole year, he doesn’t see you in his future.
At this stage, he hasn’t accepted that he is feeling it.
A guy who doesn’t want to be with you anymore rarely raves about you to his friends, colleagues or family.
He rarely talks about you period.
He doesn’t bring you up as a topic of discussion unless he is asked or prompted.
This is when he is showing his lack of caring.
When a guy rarely wants to talk about you, he most likely doesn’t want to be with you anymore.
He is showing a lack of effort in this area and that signifies he has lost the energy to keep the relationship going.
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