Why Would He Lose Interest?

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Why Would He Lose Interest?

He will lose interest when he gets bored and feels like he knows enough about you to judge how the relationship is going to go.

When he can predict the course of where this interaction will go, he may feel like it is too predictable.

This may make him feel like there is no reason to keep trying.

He may want more of a mystery.

He may want to feel that excitement of getting to know more about you.

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When he feels like there is so much more he has to learn about you, he may want to stick around and by so doing maintain interest.

However, when he feels like he already knows everything there is to know about you and he can predict where everything is going, he may feel like he doesn’t have any further reason to go on because the mystery is over.

Another reason why he would lose interest is when he is unable to truly figure out how you feel about him.

A guy typically wants to be sure that a girl likes him.

He may be patient for a while as he attempts to court her, but at some point, he does want to have a definitive show that the girl is interested.

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He may just need that so that he feels like he is getting somewhere with the girl.

When a girl is not very responsive to his approach, he may wonder what she is thinking.

He may wonder whether she is interested in him.

There may be moments that she is responsive.

She may laugh at some of his jokes or ask him about something he cares about.

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She may even flirt back at him from time to time. However, he is left with more doubt as time goes on about how she really feels about him.

He may be worried that he always seems to be the one who is initiating contact.

He may be worried that she never lets the conversation flow and always seems to cut if off just when it seemed like it was getting deeper.

He may be worried that he can’t seem to get an opportunity to ask her out or she never seems to be available when he asks her about her availability for a date.

All these things can easily lead a guy to lose interest in the girl after a while of trying.

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He just can’t keep investing so much of his time and effort on someone who seems like she lacks interest.

Another reason why he would lose interest is when he realizes that there is too much difference in personalities and backgrounds.

He may be worried that he simply can’t relate to this girl.

There is simply not enough common ground, if any. In a situation like this, he is in foreign territory.

He worries that he will not be able to keep a conversation going because there will be no relatable topics.

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He may not want to put himself in this kind of scenario.

He may have experienced it before and didn’t like it.

He may have taken a chance on a girl who wasn’t compatible in commonalities and it ended badly.

He doesn’t want to make that mistake again, so he loses interest.

010By Luke Iwuji, a dating coach and founder of DatingLogic.net. For the best professional dating or relationship advice, Book a Session with me.