The girl doesn’t bring up the fact that she has a boyfriend as soon as possible, believing that she was having nothing but a platonic conversation with the guy who instigated the conversation.
Girls are not always thinking about a guy’s ulterior motive in talking to them.
She is making conversation because that is what she does.
As a social person, she has no problem keeping a conversation going.
As the conversation ensues, she is not concerned about whether he is hitting on her, and she should probably tell him that she has a boyfriend.
Unless the guy has been obvious about his romantic interest in her from the start of the conversation, she is going to make the assumption that this is merely conversation.
She would feel awkward if she were to assume that this guy was hitting on her, when he has shown no real signs that he is in conversation.
If she were to say that she had a boyfriend completely out of context, it would seem forced, somewhat rude, and wouldn’t make much sense to her.
Suddenly mentioning a boyfriend completely out of context as she talks to you about pop culture seems awkward, and completely out of place.
To avoid being constantly in this position, make your intentions obvious from the start of the conversation, or come right out and ask her for her number or a date.
You are better off when you have more genuine intention in your approach than when you are conversing in the hopes that she warms up to you.
A girl is not compelled to tell you that she has a boyfriend in conversation, thinking it redundant.
As I mentioned earlier, unless you were clear about your romantic interest in her in your approach, she assumes that you are strictly making conversation.
Never assume that every girl you are interested in talking to is going to tell you that she has a boyfriend.
Instead, make your romantic intentions known early.
Start with flirting with her, or asking her directly whether she is in a relationship with someone.
If you choose to get into conversation first, don’t take too long to ask her about her relationship status or out on a date.
Nothing is more frustrating than spending a long stretch of time talking to a woman you are attracted to, only to hear her tell you that she has a boyfriend.
You can’t go around having conversations with girls assuming that they are going to come right out and tell you that they have a boyfriend.
This is too presumptive and girls won’t do it, unless the conversation you are having with her naturally calls for it.
Save yourself the constant frustration of learning that she has a boyfriend too late.
This way, you never have to waste your time again.
It doesn’t do you any good to get upset at a girl that tells you that she has a boyfriend, when you were never transparent with your romantic intentions from the onset of conversation.
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