Girls aren’t in the habit of giving any guy their number on Facebook who requests it or shows an interest in them.
There are special situations when she is immensely attracted to the guy and decides to give him her phone number on Facebook.
On these rare occasions, the girl wants the guy to take their conversations to the next level.
She barely knows him, but she is hoping that by giving him her number on Facebook, he kickstarts the process of getting to know her better beyond Facebook.
She wants him to take the initiative by doing this.
It is likely that she doesn’t want to spend too much time having conversations on Facebook that lead nowhere.
She wants to skip the aimless back and forth conversations on Facebook, as they are too time-consuming.
She doesn’t want to spend all that time communicating with this guy on Facebook, only to reach a point where the interest is lost.
She will know its lost when he is taking too long to respond to her messages on Facebook, or when he is spending the majority of his time on other people’s Facebook pages.
She would wonder why he is suddenly acting this way.
She would be unhappy about that, especially if she has grown to like him while on Facebook.
By giving this guy that she barely knows her number this soon, she wants to avoid putting herself in a situation where they become nothing but Facebook buddies.
This often happens when two individuals get too comfortable communicating on Facebook.
It is done out of the feeling of convenience.
When a person can get an interesting discussion going out of someone else online and gets rid of their boredom or sense of loneliness, it is easier to stick with that medium of communication, and not go any further.
That person gets into that Facebook rut where they are getting their emotional needs met to an extent, and doesn’t feel the desire to take things any further with who they are communicating with.
She has experienced this in the past.
She met a guy on Facebook in the past who was fantastic when he was messaging her.
The conversations she had with this guy on Facebook were interesting and engaging.
But, he didn’t take the conversations he was having with her to the next stage.
She hoped that he would have asked her for her number or at least asked her out, but he never did.
He got into that Facebook mode of comfort where he kept communicating online and nowhere else.
In time, he lost interest altogether and the Facebook conversations lapsed.
This happens when a person doesn’t act quick enough on Facebook, while the mutual interest is brimming.
She doesn’t want to have to go through that ordeal again, wasting all that time communicating on Facebook only to have nothing come out of it.
As a result, she gives this guy she barely knows her number, knowing that she already likes him and wants to move things along.
Hopefully, she gets him to call her and if they hit it off, meet him in person in the foreseeable future.
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