A guy will often look at other girls when he is out on dates with you because he is visual in nature.
It is difficult for him not to look.
Now, I understand that this doesn’t necessarily make you feel good.
You may feel like he is being disrespectful.
This makes no sense to you.
However, many guys don’t think in this way.
In his mind, he is merely admiring and nothing more.
A guy would interpret this kind of behavior as taking note of beautiful girls but not taking it any further than that.
This is how most guys who look at other girls when on a date with a girl often justify what they are doing.
It is only looking.
It is only admiring.
They use this as their internal mantra.
Of course, you don’t see it that way.
You want this guy’s attention to always be on you.
You want him to give you the respect of not looking at other girls when he is out on a date with you.
It is understandable that you feel this way.
However, you have also got to learn how to start looking at this from the perspective of many guys.
Once you understand the way they think, you can take the next course of action.
If you want this kind of behavior to stop, your best course of action is to start admiring those girls too and start commenting.
You will have to start playing along.
Every time you notice him looking at another girl, you could ask him something about her.
You can be humorous and lighthearted about it.
You could ask him what he thought about her shoes.
He may be taken aback at first.
He would not be expecting you to do this.
However, you asked him a question and he is now on the spot.
You have put him on the spot in a humorous way.
You weren’t snapping at him for looking at another girl.
You merely asked him a question about what he thought about her shoes.
He may give you some kind of vague answer or not answer at all.
This is the first step.
The next time you notice that he is looking at other girls, you could ask him what he thought about her hair.
Again, he will be taken aback by this.
He may chuckle some but he may also be relatively nervous.
Again, he doesn’t quite know how to respond to the question.
The next time he is looking at another girl when on a date with you, you could ask him whether he thinks she took a shower that day.
Again, he is going to be taken aback, but now he is noticing a pattern in what you are doing.
He is noticing that every time he is looking at other girls, you are asking him questions about them.
These are lighthearted questions but he may not be quite so comfortable answering them.
You have now programmed him to believe that you will keep doing this.
In order to avoid putting himself in these awkward moments, he may stop looking at other girls entirely when he is out on dates with you.
You have disarmed him by using a humorous and witty approach.
This is one of the most effective ways to get a guy to stop looking at other girls when he is out on dates with you.
Join The Discussion
- Last Post