You shouldn’t date him if you are looking for a serious relationship.
As a known player, he is destined to play you too.
In spite of what you believe, he isn’t going to change once he starts dating you.
You believe that he is destined to be a new man on account of how amazing you are.
This is unfortunately the line of thinking that so many girls have when it comes to dating guys they know are players.
Somehow, she is the one who changes him, making him see the value in being loyal, and getting him to concentrate on her and her only.
Unfortunately, this doesn’t happen too frequently, considering how tough it is for a player to change.
A player has had his way for a while.
He knows the effect he has on girls.
He has gotten to the point where it is no longer about dating a girl.
That isn’t even where the thrill is.
The thrill for him is about the process of getting that girl to like him and become obsessed with him.
Once he has that, he moves on to the next girl.
He answers her phone calls and sleeps with her from time to time, but he doesn’t take her seriously.
The thrill is now gone.
Figure out what you are looking for in a relationship.
When you are purely looking to date casually and have fun, dating this guy isn’t such a bad idea.
Since you aren’t looking for anything serious, a player is fun to banter with and flirt with.
A player knows the game and is adept at it.
It is assured that the player is unlikely to fall in love with you nor want more than you are prepared to give.
A player would be a safe bet when you are hoping to be with a guy with no strings attached and for a relatively short period of time.
You won’t have to worry about the player falling in love with you and taking this casual relationship too seriously.
If you are seeking a serious relationship that you hope becomes long-term, you are better off not dating this player.
He is charming and tells you what sounds so good.
He makes you feel like you are the most special girl in his world.
Nevertheless, this is what a player does.
A player is adept at telling you the right words that tickle and stimulate that part of your brain that craves companionship.
A player is able to excite you on both an intimate and personal level.
He exudes a level of confidence and swagger that is intoxicating to girls.
In falling for this, you live to regret it.
When you are seeking a long-term serious relationship, a player is not the right person to date.
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