A lot of men tell women that they are beautiful, gorgeous or sexy.
These men are normally the outgoing types.
It is not a new rule in a dating handbook somewhere.
Many men have done this for ages.
It feels repetitive to you.
It makes you feel as though you aren’t special, given that they are telling so many women the exact same thing.
Be aware that men are visual.
A woman’s beauty is what they see first.
They get enamored with that beauty and feel like they have to express it by telling her that she is beautiful, gorgeous or sexy.
They are interested in getting to know the woman as a person as well.
Nonetheless, they are voicing what has struck them instantly and hope that you like the compliment.
Understand that women are visual as well.
They do like looking at a handsome or gorgeous guy.
Unlike most men, most women aren’t going to come right out and say what they are thinking.
How many times have you seen a guy that you instantly thought was beautiful, gorgeous or sexy?
Think about it.
You have had these experiences in your life.
You instantly picked up on the guy’s attractiveness.
You didn’t tell him what you were thinking, keeping quiet instead.
Maybe you sent him a few body language signs of interest.
You smiled at him or looked him up and down with your eyes.
You were showing interest at that moment.
You didn’t verbally tell him what you thought about his looks but you showed it through your body language.
Men and women are conditioned in totally different ways when it comes to dating, romance and attraction.
Women are taught or conditioned to be more reserved with how they feel about a guy.
A woman would be typically conditioned to let the guy do the pursuing and to not be too verbally complimentary toward the guy upon meeting him so as not to appear desperate.
A guy on the other hand is conditioned to be the one who pursues.
Thereby, he becomes more verbal in his compliments because he has to leave an impression.
He is typically the one who has to make the first move and has been taught that he has to convey his masculinity to get the girl’s attention.
Therewith, you have a lot of men tell the women they date that they are beautiful, gorgeous or sexy.
Since men are generally the ones who have to be proactive in getting the woman to go on a date with them, they believe that complimenting her is a poignant method in getting her to feel good and thereby keep her attention.
This is the reason why men do this.
This is not a new rule in some dating handbook.
It is how the dating game has been for thousands of years.
Men are competing with each other to get a woman.
Telling the woman that she is beautiful, gorgeous or sexy is done to impress the woman so that they win her over and beat out the guys they are competing with.
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