You shouldn’t stop.

You are frustrated that you haven’t had much success in chasing girls.

They tell you that they aren’t interested or they flake on dates.

You are not having a unique experience.

No one said that the dating game was easy.

If you want love or romance, you shouldn’t give up on those aspirations owing to a frustration with your current situation.

You don’t need to chase girls to get them.

You can have them chase you.

Girls tend to respond to guys who are very good in social situations.

They are social creatures themselves and look for that element in a guy.

Instead of going out to social events and chasing girls, have them come to you.

Organize your own social events.

Throw a party at your place or rent a space at a local hotel for a party or get together.

Invite your friends and have them invite their friends and coworkers.

Being the organizer of the event, you have already established social credibility to several of the girls who are either coming to the event or hearing about it.

Your name is now out there.

The next time you hold an event like this, a greater number of girls show up based on your reputation alone.

They want to know who is hosting.

They are drawn to someone who is able to draw a crowd and be at the helm.

That person is you.

This is how you can draw many girls to you and have them chase you instead of the other way around.

To get girls to chase you, be opinionated.

When you are in general conversation, speak your mind.

Don’t be afraid to disagree with a girl.

This shows that you have your own sense of independence and style.

This shows your confidence.

Independence, style and confidence is attractive to girls, compelling them to flock to you.

Improve your skills with an activity you are good at.

When you have a talent or passion for something, practice it on a daily basis to get seriously good at it.

Pick up that guitar that you haven’t touched in years and play it daily.

Pick up that basketball that is generating cobwebs in your closet and go to the local park or gym to practice your jump shots, dribbles, defense, etc.

The better you get at a skill, the higher your level of confidence grows as a person and in that skill.

When you go to the next social event, you have the courage to pick up that guitar and play to the crowd.

When you have improved your skills in basketball, sign up for the next basketball tournament.

In these environments you get to showcase your talent.

That alone brings girls to you.

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