You may be unlikable to girls for a number of reasons.
However, the first place you need to look at is in what is going on in your head.
Your mentality is the first step.
If you look at yourself as undesirable and unlikable to girls, you will act accordingly and fulfill that belief.
Look back at your history with girls.
Try to recall where you think this began.
Was it early on in grade school or later?
There is a good chance that there is a history of this.
This typically means that the problem doesn’t lie with the girls but in you.
This doesn’t mean that you are a bad guy or even undesirable.
It simply means that you should start looking at certain facets of your character and make some changes.
In situations like this, one of the biggest mistakes that guys make is they believe that the problem is in their looks.
Hence, they will either start entirely focusing on trying to make themselves look better or simply give up by telling themselves that there is nothing they can do about their looks.
Looks do help.
However, you could be the best looking guy in the world and still be unlikable.
On the flip side, you could be quite ordinary looking and still be very likable to girls.
Some of the most consistently prodigious guys with girls are some of the most ordinary looking.
Don’t believe me?
Next time you go out, take a look at the guys who have girlfriends.
You will notice something amazing.
They don’t all look like Brad Pitt. In fact, a lot of them are quite average looking and yet they have girlfriends.
When you look back on your history and see social patterns of behavior that you have maintained through your life, you will know what to change.
If you hang around the same type of people every time, it’s time to make new friends.
If you are always unwilling to talk to someone you are unfamiliar with because you prefer the safety net of your social circle, you will have to change that.
The most important task you have is to make changes in areas that you are most comfortable.
Exactly, areas that you are most comfortable.
It is time for you to start taking risks and being uncomfortable.
You will need to start activities that you have never tried and take chances with exposing yourself to new ways of doing things.
For example, change where you tend to go on Friday nights.
Also, if you are the type who just lets your friends attract all the attention at social events, it’s time to get selfish and become an attention hog.
Be the first one to grab that mike and belt your lungs out at karaoke even if you can’t sing to save your life.
This makes you appear incredibly likable to girls as they will be very attracted to your confidence.
The point here is that it is time for you to become uncomfortable.
Get out of your comfort zone and take risks.
Make some changes in your social life and even in the way you present yourself.
Yes, your appearance is important too.
You don’t have to change your entire wardrobe but do infuse some new life to it by acquiring new outfits.
A newer wardrobe also gives you a sense of confidence because you will feel good wearing them.
Attitude and presentation is everything in the beginning.
When you work on these and master them, you will no longer be unlikable to girls.
Girls will actually be drawn to you.
They will also feel the need to get to know more about what makes you so confident in yourself.
Thereby, girls will not only be drawn to you but they will also want to stick around.
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