You can’t force a guy to like you if he isn’t feeling it.
When you are so entranced in getting a guy to like you back, you may forget this and start putting yourself in really precarious situations.
When you have this overwhelming desire for a guy, it is that much easier to desire that he likes you back.
You want so badly for this guy to like you back that you may do just about anything to make it happen.
You fail to realize that not every guy is going to like you even if you like them.
This is how it works in life.
You can’t always get what you want.
You may feel one way about a guy but he may have absolutely no inclination to feel the same.
You may ponder.
You may ask yourself why this is.
You may even believe that the chemistry and compatibility is all there.
Your mind may be creating stories in your head about what it would be like to be with this guy.
You get so involved in all these emotions that you simply don’t see that there will be guys who will like you and guys who won’t.
For one thing, this guy may not be physically attracted to you.
Yes, I know that people tell you that you are pretty all the time.
However, this particularly guy may not feel the same way.
Perhaps there is a particular look that he prefers that you don’t have.
You can’t assume that every guy will find you attractive.
He may also not be willing to date you because he doesn’t feel any compatibility with you.
Even though your conversations with him may have been pleasant and fun, he may have simply considered them platonic in nature.
There may be a line of discussion or topic that he prefers.
There may be a way a girl goes about talking and the energy that she gives off that you haven’t given him.
As a result, he doesn’t feel any compatibility with you.
Now, all this being said, there are ways you can get a guy to notice you and consider dating you.
Finding a commonality with him is one.
Finding something that you can relate to can help him feel a connection.
It could be in anything from art to goals or even a life philosophy.
You could also help him when he needs it. In other words, be his friend.
Don’t be afraid to help him overcome a temporary problem.
Perhaps his car is in the shop and he needs a ride to the gym or someplace.
You can offer to give him one.
While you are at it, start a conversation and get to know each other better.
If you are also a gym person, ask him if it is alright to work out with him from time to time.
If he agrees, these moments at the gym are prime opportunities to build rapport.
If he loves photography and needs some help with a set up over the weekend, offer to help.
If you know nothing about photography, be inquisitive as you help him with the set up.
This is how you bond.
The more you bond and you are helpful, the more dependent he is on your company and energy.
This is a very effective way to get a guy to consider the prospect of dating you.
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