It is possible that someone loves you but refuses to admit it.
This has a lot to do with the uncertainty of what your relationship is or whether they are sure about their own feelings, and have a keenness to come to terms with it.
It comes down to the somewhat immature premise that they would much rather hear you tell them just how much you love them, before they are ready to tell you the same.
Should you be in a predicament where you aren’t sure whether someone loves you or not, you shouldn’t dwell on it.
The first thing you need to do is be willing to be honest with your own feelings.
Don’t be hesitant or afraid to tell this person what you feel for them.
If you love them, tell them that.
I know that it is intimidating and scary to divulge how you feel.
The basis of any successful relationship starts with honesty.
You have to be willing to be the one to step up and do what must be done in order to either keep the relationship honest or at least keep it transparent.
One of the mistakes and traps that people in relationships tend to fall into is when they hide their feelings, afraid that the other person doesn’t feel the same way.
You shouldn’t do this.
Being upfront and honest about how you feel releases you from unnecessary emotional burdens.
When you become guarded or secretive about your feelings, you will carry that weight around.
Whenever you are with this person, their feelings toward you come into question, leaving you constantly hoping for them to tell you they love you so that you finally get to tell them that you feel the same.
Being in this state is wearisome for a relationship.
Think about it for a second.
You are in this relationship and all you can think about is whether this person loves you.
You are hanging out with them, but you struggle to fully invest yourself in the experience, too worried about whether they love you or not.
How uncomfortable will this state of mind be for you?
I would venture that it would be a sorry and burdensome place to be.
Thereby, my whole point in all of this is simply this.
If you are in love with this person, tell them so and let the chips fall.
A person who feels the same way about you lets you know, either through their words or their deeds.
You have to be brave enough to make yourself vulnerable.
Doing this puts you in a position that is advantageous, as it takes away all of the guesswork and lets you have peace of mind.
Should you be dealing with someone you believe loves you, but continues to refuse to admit it, even after you have told them about how you feel about them, this person isn’t taking your feelings into account.
When this person doesn’t care about your feelings to the extent that they continue playing this game, this person isn’t worth dating.
Holding on to the hope that this person loves you or has feelings for you, has you losing out on other opportunities for romance with new prospects.
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