You should go out with him if you feel like the both of you have had a good connection so far and you are interested in more.
You don’t know how the date will go.
However, that is partly the reason why we date in the first place. We do it to see how we will connect with someone else and whether there will be chemistry.
You have to be open to that fact.
If you begin to think that this could be all too weird, you may miss out on someone who would have been good for you.
Relationships are a risk.
However, we initially go through the dating process so that we give ourselves the best shot at finding the right one for us.
This is why you should strongly consider going out with him as opposed to thinking that it is too weird.
Whatever it is that you think is weird may simply be your fear talking.
You may be so worried that things won’t work out at the date that you decide that this is all too weird.
You may have a number of fears that have even plagued you in past relationships that you’re still holding onto.
It could be a fear of failure at the date.
It could be a fear that your date wouldn’t live up to your expectations.
It could be a fear that by dating this guy, you would ruin the relationship that you have with him right now.
You shouldn’t allow fear to guide your actions.
Fear can give you all of the negative. Fear can make you regret.
If this person is single and available, you owe it to yourself to give this a shot.
However, you obviously have to be at a place mentally where you feel like you are ready to date.
If you are dealing with some negative emotional issues that have little to do with him, you may not be ready to go out with him.
Some people make the mistake of believing that by getting into a new relationship, they will solve all of their life problems.
They force themselves to believe that somehow that relationship will pull them out of their depression or their unhappiness.
Unfortunately, that relationship would only be a band aid on a very large wound.
Someone else cannot make you feel better about yourself. If they do, it will only be temporary.
The real happiness and satisfaction comes from how you feel within.
This is where your source of positive energy and love comes from.
Loving yourself is your most important step before thinking about bringing someone else into your life.
A person will add to your happiness if you do it in a healthy way.
They shouldn’t be in charge of it.
That’s your job.
If you are not mentally ready to be in a relationship or to start dating, you shouldn’t go out with him.
You will need to work on yourself first.
However, if you are ready and happy with yourself, give it a shot.
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