It’s important that you do enough for her to notice you.
This is an area where you shouldn’t be shy or overly restrictive with.
Doing it right can often make all of the difference.
Hence, your best option would be to take as many of the qualities that you know that your friends or family love about you and put them on display.
If you are a funny guy, do not be afraid to show it.
If you are smart, show it.
If you are a little on the cocky side, show that.
However, don’t take this too far.
It’s one thing to be a little bit cocky and still desirable and another to be so full of yourself that you turn the girl off as a result.
You should try your best to avoid being something that you are not.
A lot of guys fall into this trap.
They want to impress the girl so much that they start acting like someone that they are not.
The problem with this is that there is a good chance that the girl will be able to tell.
Even if she doesn’t initially, as she gets more and more exposure to you, she will start noticing some chinks in your armor.
In other words, you will begin to crack.
It is only natural.
As a human being, you can only keep up an act for so long before traces of your real behavior begin to show.
She would be turned off by the fact that you were acting all along and this would make you lose out on the opportunity to get to know her and possibly date her.
So, yes, you should be yourself.
You should also ensure that you have something interesting to talk about.
Try to avoid the mundane and safe topics of discussion.
She has had them before and this doesn’t set you apart from all the other guys that may be trying to impress her as well.
Instead of talking about how her day is going for example, you could ask her to tell you about one of her best days.
What did she do?
Where did she go?
Who was she interacting with?
This is open ended and enables the both of you to get into a discussion that is exciting and different.
When you have her thinking about one of her best days, she would be recollecting happy and good thoughts.
These thoughts in memory will automatically put her in a better mood.
That is how it works.
As a human being, when you start to think of a happy memory, it tends to make your entire mood happy and pleasant.
Right at this moment, you have started your interaction with her on a very positive note and you are giving her a very good impression of you.
You can also find ways to be personable when you are within her vicinity.
Try to work the room.
Let her see that you are interacting with other people as well. Let her see the social side to your personality.
This can be very impressive to a girl as girls tend to be attracted to social guys.
What can be even more effective as you do this is to stop by where she is from time to time, have a brief conversation with her, then move on to other people.
This will leave her wanting more.
The more she sees you interacting with the others, the more she wants you to come back to her and have more of a conversation.
You will even notice her glancing in your direction from time to time, observing you.
Everything I have just described will give you the best opportunity of leaving a good impression on this girl.
Just make sure that you appear natural in what you are doing and not fake.
As long as you are able to remember that you are your own unique individual and you are willing to share that with her, you should be able to put yourself at ease.
When you are at ease, it will be easier for your uniqueness to come through, thereby improving your chances of leaving a good impression.
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