Yes, it is okay for guys when a girl has a small belly. You may actually be your own worst enemy in allowing yourself to become too self-critical.
Guys may give the impression that they want the perfect girl with the perfect body.
However, they truly just want to be loved in the end with someone that they find attractive.
A small belly is not a big deal.
Are there going to be guys who find that unappealing?
There are guys who find the slightest imperfection unappealing.
However, why would you want such a guy?
It is better that he goes on and finds his Miss Perfect.
With guys like this, they can never be satisfied.
They will always find something wrong on the girl even if she is seemingly perfect.
They will find something to complain about.
This is not the kind of guy you should want anyway.
Now, the problem here is not so much that you have a small belly, it’s that you are insecure about it.
This is actually what could make guys more turned off by you than your actual small belly.
Guys love girls who love themselves and are comfortable with themselves.
They want to see that she is confident and loves what she has to offer.
They want to see that she thinks of herself highly and is proud of herself.
If they notice that you are uncomfortable about something, that is actually what could turn them off.
They may not even know that it is your small belly that is the issue.
They may not have even noticed it.
Their first impression of you may have been that you were unhappy and anxious.
This may be what they noticed first and foremost.
Hence, your actual attitude is what they noticed and not the small belly that you are so insecure about.
This may be what pushes them away and not your small belly.
If you have had experiences with guys in the past who didn’t show interest and you attributed that to your small belly, think again.
Are you smiling when you are around guys?
Do you talk to them?
Do you allow yourself to be approached through keeping your head up and making eye contact?
If you are insecure about your body in some aspect, you may be showing very negative body language.
When you don’t smile, guys may interpret that as a sign that you are disinterested.
When you avoid eye contact, guys may interpret that as a sign that you don’t want to be bothered.
You may be doing all these things and not even be aware of it.
Hence, take a look at what you typically do when you are around guys.
There is a good chance that you have negative body language.
The negative body language is more likely what guys are responding to and not your small belly.
Try doing an experiment today.
When you are in an area that has guys, try smiling and making eye contact with as many guys in the area as you can.
Try to remember to do this as much as you can.
You will notice something that you probably haven’t experienced lately.
They may smile back and actually approach you.
This may surprise you at first and you may not want to believe that they are actually acknowledging you but they are.
Your small belly was never the issue.
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