Weight is important to people when it comes to dating and relationships, but most people fall somewhere in the middle in terms of weight preferences.

The middle is where the slight differences set in, depending on each unique individual’s preferences.

A girl prefers a guy who is not too skinny or overweight, nor overly muscular.

She prefers a guy who weighs more than her, but more so on account of his taller height than his girth.

She isn’t against the idea of being with a guy who has some extra fat on him.

That being said, she prefers that the bulk of the weight comes from his taller height than the width of his belly.

A guy on the other hand looks at a girl who is too thin, with a lack of definition to her body, as less physically appealing.

Her deficit in weight is a turn off.

For him, a girl who is more evenly proportioned, or voluptuous, has much greater appeal.

If the majority of her weight is around areas that he finds attractive on her, he is drawn to her.

To him, this girl is his middle, and this is what he prefers.

This is why it gets tricky to figure out what a guy or girl’s middle is.

In many cases, guys and girls prefer someone who isn’t too skinny or too overweight.

This changes once two people have been in a relationship together for a while.

If they have been together long enough, its a common occurrence that someone in the relationship gains weight.

This isn’t attractive to her, but she tolerates it because she has been with him for a while.

In this time, there are numerous facets to their relationship that she has grown to treasure, and has placed above his physical appearance.

This is where people let go of their preferences.

Whereas, she would never have entertained the idea of dating him, had she met him and he was already overweight.

Now that she has been in a relationship with him for years, she eases off on her weight requirements.

Sure, she wants him to shape up, but she still loves him, and finds value in him in other ways.

This is why when you are out and about, it is common to see couples that are overweight, or at least, one member is.

Not all of them started their relationships at those heavier weights.

Nonetheless, there is complacency that sets in when it comes to being in a long-term relationship.

Neither party isn’t as pressured to impress, being that they have already won the prize.

This is when the weight starts kicking in over time.

In conclusion, weight is important to relationships in the beginning.

With this in mind, maintaining a healthy middle weight is your best bet.

As time goes on in a relationship, weight doesn’t matter as much.