A relationship is worth fighting for when there are a greater number of pros to the relationship than cons.

Take time to carefully weigh the pros against the cons in your relationship.

What about this relationship has given you great joy during its duration and what about it hasn’t?

Which outweighs which?

Even better, what can you tolerate the most?

Are there cons that you can tolerate on account of having pros that are far more powerful and needful than those cons?

Besides weighing the pros and the cons, take a considerable moment to judge whether you and your partner are on the same path.

Are you headed towards the same direction?

Do you share common interests.

Is your bliss in line with his?

Your bliss is a number of things.

It’s improving and enjoying the relationships that you have outside of your romance with your partner.

These are relationships with friends, acquaintances, work colleagues and family.

Your bliss is attaining a personal or professional goal that looms large.

Are you supportive of each other’s goals?

Being on a similar trajectory and energy level is a must for a relationship to thrive and be worth fighting for.

If there is a fork in your intentions, there is bound to be trouble down the road.

Your goals don’t have to be identical, but your partner does have to support you in them.

How do you feel about this?

Is your partnership with him on a similar path towards bliss?

A bliss that mutually share along the way.

A relationship is worth fighting for when you know that your partner is making you feel good on a consistent basis.

Does he consistently make you feel good?

Do you feel good when you think about him, or do you cringe instead?

In the event that you cringe, why so?

Do you cringe because you remember the last argument you had with him that ended without a resolution.

Do you cringe, dreading what happens as you address a problem within the relationship that you know he doesn’t want to hear about.

There are a multitude of reasons why you cringe or feel uneasy.

These feelings cannot be ignored.

There is a reason why you feel them.

If these feelings are by far the dominant emotion whenever you are around your partner, or think about said partner, this relationship isn’t worth fighting for.

Oftentimes, this dominant emotion is our subconscious self.

Our subconscious self is a part of us that we frequently ignore.

It tells us that there is something wrong with our relationship.

Listen to this voice.

This voice is intuitive, as it comes from a part of your mind that isn’t at the forefront of your consciousness.

This voice is your subconscious.

Your subconscious is the most informed part of your mind when it comes to decision-making.