Where there are a plethora of members of the opposite sex, you give yourself the greatest exposure.
When you attend an event at a location where there are plenty of women attending, there are more opportunities for you to be seen by them, which increases the likelihood you find a date.
This is intimidating to some guys.
Putting yourself in a social venue where there are a bunch of girls is nerve-racking when you aren’t used to being in these type of venues.
Counter this intimidation by going to these crowded venues with a good number of your own friends.
There is safety in a group of friends.
These are guys that you know, which gives you a feeling of reassurance that there are people for you to talk to throughout the crowded social event as backup.
When you are someone who doesn’t have a group of friends to attend these social venues with, the situation isn’t hopeless.
Think about making new friends by getting involved in activities that you love in a group setting.
These are activities that you normally do on your own.
What are your personal hobbies?
Hiking, biking, gaming, exercising, fishing, martial arts, golf, archery, chess, etc.,?
Whatever they are, join interest groups that regularly meet to participate in these activities.
This is where you get to be among people who have the same interests as you, and you get to make friends.
Making new friends is a wonderful thing.
A number of these new friends are sure to be open to the idea of going out to social events with you in the future where there are lots of members of the opposite sex.
Once you go out with these new friends to these social venues on a regular basis, you are primed to meet people of the opposite sex, which gives you the potential to find a date.
These social venues include bars, house parties, block parties, nightclubs, concerts, etc.
There are many members of the opposite sex in these social venues, and in time, you get to determine whether these are your favorite places to meet the opposite sex.
When there are so many members of the opposite sex in one social venue, you have limitless opportunities to make mistakes as you talk to those you are attracted to.
It’s alright to make mistakes.
When you make mistakes and learn from them, you get that much better at talking to members of the opposite sex.
Your confidence grows in time, and before you know it, you are a regular sweet-talker to women.
Look at these social venues as your classroom.
It’s alright to stumble as you initiate conversations with women.
Learn from those stumbles so that you get better at talking to women, succeed in getting them to like you, and get them excited to go out on a date with you.
A crowded social venue isn’t everyone’s cup of tea.
A favorite place to meet the opposite isn’t solely relegated to crowded social venues.
Moments earlier, I mentioned joining interest groups to make new friends.
Just as in crowded social venues, an interest group is a place where people of the opposite sex are found.
There aren’t as many of them as there are in social venues, but they do exist in these groups.
Befriend people of the opposite sex in the interest groups you join.
Conversation with them is less intimidating than it is in a crowded social venue, as you have an activity in common with them.
This makes them that much more receptive to you, which opens the door to finding a date with one of them in the foreseeable future.