Playing miniature golf is a lot of fun.
It is a great activity that is engaging, while allowing for conversation.
Sure, miniature golf isn’t all that showy.
But, unless you have been dating this guy for a while, you are better off sticking with less complicated dates this early into courtship.
In the early stages of courtship, fun dates that are easy to do and safe are apropo.
For example, bungee jumping this early is a bit too much.
Regardless of how much you get a rush from it, or want to conquer a fear of heights, bungee jumping with your date in the early stages of courtship isn’t a good idea.
It is not the time to show off.
Rather, this early, your concern should be to get to know him better in easygoing environments.
An environment such as a zoo for instance.
A zoo is a fun date idea.
Walking through the beautiful landscape gives you time to talk to each other in tandem with admiring the beautiful animals in their abodes or on the water.
This is a picturesque setting that adds to conversation.
In other words, you never have to worry about awkward silences as you get to know each other through conversation.
Whenever there is a slight lull in conversation, the zoo and its animals provide a topic of conversation that acts as a bridge to a whole new topic about yourselves.
A zoo is beauty, solitude, and tranquility, which sets a wonderful atmosphere for your date with him.
A fun date idea is one that is mutually enjoyable.
Always corroborate that the activity is one that you mutually want to do.
Sometimes, it’s easy to get caught up in wanting to do an activity that you have been longing to do, without thinking about whether he wants to do it too.
Although he agrees to it, it doesn’t mean that he wants to do it.
He agrees to it to be civil, but deep down, it isn’t implausible that he has no interest in doing the activity.
At least, not this early.
Whether it is a music festival, carnival, theater production, etc., hold off on making suggestions for dates based off of activities you are longing to attend.
Save these for the later stages of courtship.
For now, focus on activities you are mutually open to doing.
A picnic for instance.
This is an activity that is common and familiar.
Remember, the early dates aren’t about flair and showiness.
Your prime concern must be about building a camaraderie with each other in a safe and fun environment that is fairly familiar.
Common activities that people do all the time is a great approach.
A picnic is picturesque and intimate.
There are an assortment of items to bring.
Enjoy the process as you decide on who brings what.
Fruits, vegetables, wine, biscuits, cheese, baguette, etc.
The choices are endless.
While eating and drinking in such a tranquil area, conversation is aplenty and fun laughter is a constant.