A fear of rejection is a powerful factor in making guys hesitant to ask girls out.
A girl that tells a guy “no” equates to a stab to the heart, and its the worst feeling in the world.
The more he likes the girl, the deeper the stab to the heart.
As humans, we don’t like rejection.
The idea of being asked out by girls is a dream that a large contingent of guys fantasize about.
Being that they aren’t used to being asked out by girls, men welcome the experience.
They not only like it, they want to one day wake up in a world where this isn’t a novelty, but the norm.
Women who ask men out are far more likely to be successful than vice versa.
Although going out to get pizza doesn’t sound like a traditional first date idea, it is an outing nonetheless.
As long as he is clear that this is a one-on-one meeting, he is asking you out on a date.
His choice of pizza seems strange, but he has his reasons for choosing this particular activity.
His intention is to give this first date a lighthearted feel.
The thing is, you don’t know why she is showing those interest vibes.
Although you believe that she appears to be way out of your league, you have no idea what her criteria is in relation to what she deems attractive.
It’s never healthy to instantly judge yourself as not being worthy of asking a girl out on a date, based on a preconceived notion that she is way out of your league.
You seriously don’t know what she finds attractive.
When a guy hits it off with you in public and asks for your phone number, giving it out is the right thing to do.
This means that you get to continue the conversation beyond where you met him, whether it was at a gas station, coffee house, library, gym, grocery store, courtyard, etc.
Why wouldn’t you want a great conversation to continue with a guy that was bold enough to start a conversation with you that you enjoyed in public?
Granted, there is a fear that this is a complete stranger and you don’t know what he is about nor his background.
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