There are men who are insecure with fragile egos who read too much into rejection.
When you reject him, it rocks his belief in his identity.
It takes him to places in his head that he doesn’t like.
He immediately goes to the thought that you are indicating that he isn’t worth your time, admiration, and romantic interest.
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Lots of men in relationships conform to what a female partner wants.
These men make certain changes to their lives and personalities to make their girlfriend or wife happy.
On the surface, it looks like he has made these changes.
However, he made these changes due to his female partner’s insistence.
Men don’t have anywhere near the amount of dating options women have.
To this effect, most men are just happy to find a girl they think is attractive and make her a girlfriend and future wife.
Many of them have a scarcity mindset.
He takes the first attractive girl that gives him the right amount of attention and wants to lock her down as a long-term partner.
He was just fine with your offer to pay for the 1st date.
Although you aren’t used to a guy accepting an offer from you to pay on a 1st date, there are guys who do.
They do exist, more than you realize.
In this day and age, there are men who will take you up on that offer, and much of it has to do with their worldview.
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He was following hot girls on Instagram before he started taking you out on dates.
The problem so many girls have in these situations is in thinking that the guy is bound to change for her.
Unfortunately, he is addicted to following these hot girls on Instagram.
Each girl that dates a guy like this believes she is special.
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