People choose to stay single when they are frustrated with dating, and no longer want to go through cycles of disappointment.

There has been little to no success in dating or relationships.

Previous partners either cheated or were abusive.

Giving up on finding a romantic connection with someone seems like the right option after a while.

Although there were some relationships along the way that had promise.

Those never worked out.

With such bad luck in finding a romantic connection with someone, choosing to stay single seems like the path of least resistance and grief.

There are all sorts of reasons why a person would choose to stay single.

Right now, you believe that choosing to stay single is your best option.

Is that what you want?

Are you thinking about staying single purely based on how much bad luck you have had so far in finding a mate?

It’s human nature to want to give up out of pure frustration.

This being said, deep down, you want to find a partner.

Finding the right partner for you is not out of the question.

Go about it differently this time.

If you keep doing the same thing to find a partner, hoping for a different result, that isn’t going to happen.

You have the same circle of friends.

It’s time to expand that circle.

Meet new people.

Your circle of friends has a limited pool of prospective dates.

This goes for where you to socialize with these friends.

These familiar venues are populated with the same people every time you go to them.

Expand your circle of friends by putting yourself in different social environments.

Diversify between environments that cater to socializing, or physical activity, such as a sport or hobby, that you are passionate about.

This is how you get to expose yourself to new people.

With this approach, finding someone who interests you romantically is a reality.

This being said, be cognizant of the character of the people you attract, so that you don’t make the same old mistakes in picking a partner.

Ask yourself about what you are looking for in a partner.

Have you primarily dated partners who cheated on you in the past, or were abusive?

Why?

Were you hoping to change this person for the better?

It’s difficult to get someone to change their bad habits.

For this to happen, the person has to innately want this change.

Hoping to change someone who isn’t intent on changing is an uphill battle.

A relationship with a person like this is endless heartache, as you go down a rabbit hole of emotional ups and downs that are jarring and depressing.

Your track record with dating people you have had to fix has been bad.

It’s time to choose better relationship prospects.

All of this begins by meeting a different brand of people in new environments who are of great character.