How To Meet More Guys IRL When Most Of My Hobbies And Interests Are Stereotypically Feminine?

How To Meet More Guys IRL When Most Of My Hobbies And Interests Are Stereotypically Feminine?

The hobbies and interests you are into are stereotypically feminine, such as fashion, crafting, makeup, dance and the arts.

You love these activities and have been doing them for years.

Sadly, you have struggled to meet men while participating in these activities.

Naturally, these hobbies and interests primarily attract other women, and the men who are interested in them that you have met aren’t typically what you are attracted to.

And yes, you have already tried dating apps and hated it.

What you want to do is meet guys in real life (IRL) that you are attracted to.

Work is a no-go, as you aren’t attracted to any guy at work, nor are you in favor of mixing work with pleasure.

Ditto when it comes to your friend circle.

Almost everyone in it is already taken.

Although, your plight is a challenging one, I assure you that you aren’t doomed to be alone for the rest of your life.

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The first step is to figure out the types of men that you are attracted to.

Once you know this, all you have to do is go where they congregate.

For example, if you are attracted to men who like stereotypically masculine activities, such as sports or tech-related activities, put yourself in those environments.

It sounds intimidating to do this in real life, after all, you don’t know the first thing about football or cars.

It doesn’t matter.

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Your curiosity is good enough.

With so many men in these environments, you are bound to talk to a guy you connect with.

To start with, you have to muster up the courage to put yourself in these environments, even though it feels intimidating.

Assuage your nerves by getting a few of your female friends to tag along and accompany you to these places.

This keeps you from feeling too awkward while there.

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Getting a bunch of female friends to accompany you to these stereotypically masculine environments is a major plus.

The men who are congregated in these environments are going to instantly notice that there are a bunch of women at the football game they are attending, for instance.

They aren’t used to seeing this, and it inspires them to open and maintain conversations with you and your girlfriends.

This should take away any fear on your part that you would have little to talk about with a guy in these environments on account of your lack of knowledge.

On the contrary, guys love it when they get to look like the expert at something, as they get to explain what a touchdown is, or what a foul entails, to a woman who lacks knowledge in the activity.

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This alone makes him that much more attracted to you.

All you have to do is be like a student in a class, asking the questions you are curious about in terms of the activity, and letting him do the rest in extemporaneously answering your questions.

Should you two hit it off, he just might ask you out on a date.

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