Every time you come across a good man, only to learn that he is already taken by a good woman, you cringe.

Bad luck yet again.

He tells you that he has a girlfriend or that he is married.

It is like clockwork now, and you have come to expect it.

Whenever you are socializing with a good man that has you laughing, smiling, and having a good time, you are already dreading the inevitable.

That moment when he lets you know that he is taken.

It’s not like he was looking to mislead you.

He was merely making conversation.

Unfortunately, it seems like this is the story of your life now.

It’s not that you don’t have single men show an interest in you.

The problem is that these single men don’t appeal to you.

He tries too hard to impress you, instead of being natural and loose with who he is.

This is a far cry from what the good men who are already taken are like.

These good men have a charm, confidence, and swagger that is missing in the single men you have had the misfortune of attracting in the past.

I know that the world you live in feels hopeless in relation to meeting good men that you are attracted to, but there is a silver lining.

All the good men aren’t already taken by good women.

To get yourself a good man, make friends with said good men.

Although several of these good men are already taken, it doesn’t mean they don’t have male friends, male family members, or male coworkers who are single.

They do.

A good man that is already taken associates with other good men, as it’s human nature to be drawn to people who are similar to ourselves.

Among his inner circle of male friends, male family members, or male coworkers, there are bound to be single men.

Single men who are looking for good women like you.

Believe it or not, these single men have been going through a similar problem in the romance department.

A problem with finding a good woman, just as you have been struggling with finding a good man.

Like you, several were teetering on the brink of believing that finding a good woman was a pipe dream.

That’s when you suddenly show up, a new friend of a male friend.

Single too.

He is blown away and so glad that you have been introduced to him.

His previous dejection is replaced with elation.

The crazy thing is that, now that you have befriended a good man who was already taken and he is introducing you to his inner circle, you are now getting exposed to more single good men than you know what to do with.

All of a sudden, the single good men in his inner circle are exposed to someone brand new, who so happens to be single.

Like a pack of hungry wolves, they pounce.

Before you know it, you are getting asked out by these single good men at such a rate that you can barely keep up.

Once you put the hard work into befriending good men who are already taken, there is a treasure trove of good single men in their inner circle that will be introduced to you.