Ascertaining whether he likes you isn’t so much about the fact that he is texting you every day, but more so about the content of those texts.
Making lighthearted banter about facetious topics, isn’t a guy who likes you.
Incessantly talking about pop culture, or what he did on his lunch break, isn’t a sign of attraction.
He is bored, and wants someone to exchange banter with to kill time.
That’s why his text messages never go anywhere substantive in terms of topics of discussion.
He doesn’t like to be idle.
This is why he needs to have conversation with someone to pass the time during the course of his day.
Determining whether a guy likes you isn’t about whether he texts you every day, but about what he texts you.
When there is no substance to the text conversations you have with him, he is demonstrating that he has no interest in getting to know you on a deeper level.
If he is not asking you meaningful questions about yourself in these text conversations, he is not showing any interest in discovering more about you.
This means that he isn’t trying to determine whether there is romantic potential.
A guy that doesn’t open himself up to you in these text conversations, by revealing more about himself as a person, isn’t interested in giving you a better perspective on who he is as a person.
This is an indication that he strictly wants his text conversations with you to remain lighthearted, without direction.
It is alright to have lighthearted banter in the beginning, as two people are newly getting to know each other.
However, when a guy is interested in a girl, that lighthearted banter segues to serious topics after an appropriate amount of time.
A guy that never broaches anything serious or substantive with you in conversation, isn’t gaining further insight into how you think and what your life experiences have been.
This is prime indication that he isn’t looking at you as a romantic prospect.
If you attempted to have substantive text conversations with him in the past to no avail, this further buttresses the likelihood that he doesn’t see you as a romantic prospect.
He isn’t being receptive to these attempts, preferring instead to keep his conversations with you lighthearted and facetious.
He does this by routinely ignoring any serious topics you bring up, or quickly changing a serious topic you bring up into a lighthearted one.
Take all of this into account before falling into a trap of getting excited about receiving texts from him every day.
It is not a confirmation that he likes you.
Determining whether there is substance to his text messages is what gives you a better idea as to whether he likes you or not.
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