A guy without a job isn’t a deal breaker to a girl, depending on what stage of life she is in.
A girl that is more about the excitement of hooking up with a guy and having carefree fun isn’t all that concerned that he doesn’t have a job.
This is especially true for women in their teens and early twenties.
At this stage in her life, she likes the idea of dating a guy that is exciting, charming, reckless, and fun to be around.
She isn’t all that concerned that he is without a job as long as he isn’t homeless.
How exhilarated he makes her feel, and the unpredictability he comes with, is of greater importance to her at this early stage in her life.
Hanging out with him is carefree and fun.
Conversations with him are filled with flirtation, teasing, and playfulness.
All of this is intoxicating to her.
But it changes as she gets older.
Once a girl is in her mid twenties and beyond, her perspective changes.
Gone are the days that she was simply drawn by a guy’s bravado, swag, and flirtatious banter.
She requires more.
She is thinking about her future more than she ever did when she was in her teens and early twenties.
She is thinking about securing her future financially and with offspring.
When she looks at the man she has dated in the past, who was without a job, she isn’t as excited as she once was to date men of this ilk.
Her mortality is finally taking hold and she requires more.
Her biological instinct is telling her that it is time to find a man that comes with financial security and is capable of providing for her and her future offspring.
A guy without a job, regardless of how charming and dangerous he is, is no longer that appealing.
She knows that she is getting older and that her physical beauty is fading.
She becomes aware that she has to cash her chips in while she is young and pretty enough.
There is no future in dating a guy without a job at this older stage in her life.
She has to find a man that has a future and is capable of providing financial security for her and her future offspring.
Once a woman in her mid twenties and beyond comes to this realization, she is refusing to overlook the absence of a man’s ability to financially provide in whoever she dates.
If she is dating a guy without a job, she is demanding that he gets a job and build financial wherewithal.
She wants him to change and demonstrate that he is capable of providing for her and any future offspring she has.
Being that he is so used to getting away with dating her and not having a job, it’s difficult for him to make this change.
He decides to get a job in an attempt to satiate her, but is incapable of keeping it.
She finally gets tired of this and dumps him.
This is how it ends once a woman reaches this stage in her life.
She was okay with dating a guy without a job while she was in her wild and fun-seeking early stage of life, but now that she is in her mid-twenties and beyond, her biological instinct has taken precedence, and she is looking for financial security in whoever she dates.