There have been way too many 1st dates with guys you match with on dating apps.

Sometimes, it’s just a case of one party not connecting with the other, or vice versa.

This is reasonable.

Not every one that gets along on a dating app is going to have chemistry in person.

However, the problem you are having with not getting more 2nd dates goes deeper than this.

Even when either party seemingly made a connection at the 1st date and agreed to meet on a 2nd, it doesn’t happen.

There have been multiple occasions where a 2nd date was tentatively agreed to and there was never a follow up.

This is where you are the most aggravated.

There was so much promise.

In several of these occasions, you were looking forward to a 2nd date that was tentatively agreed on during the 1st date, and you were left waiting for a phone call that never came.

You find it hard to comprehend why a guy tells you that he wants to see you again on a 1st date, and never follows through.

It’s frustrating to you.

Being that you have gone through this with matches you have met on dating apps multiple times, you have started thinking that this must have something to do with you.

After all, there are loads of people who match on dating apps, and go on multiple dates with each other in person.

Yet, you keep failing to go on 2nd dates with your matches.

It’s as though getting a 2nd date with a match is now akin to winning the lottery.

The primary step in getting more 2nd dates is to look back on your 1st dates to see where you went wrong.

Be candid with yourself.

It takes courage to take a closer look at what you are doing on 1st dates to see where you are making mistakes.

Do you arrive to your 1st dates on time?

Arriving late is a massive turn off.

It comes off as disrespectful, and this makes a guy not want to go out on a 2nd date with a girl.

Are you conversational on these 1st dates?

When you leave it to the guy to come up with topics to talk about, you make it extremely difficult for him to enjoy the date.

He is under a lot of pressure to keep the conversation going, which is unsettling.

Additionally, it gives him the impression that you don’t care to learn more about him as a person.

All of this discourages him from wanting to go on a 2nd date.

Are you avoiding sustained eye contact?

Body language is profoundly paramount on a 1st date.

When a guy is having a tough time establishing and sustaining eye contact with you, it gives him the impression that you aren’t attracted to him.

This is a downer.

It discourages him from wanting to see you again on a 2nd date.

When you make adjustments to what you have been doing wrong on 1st dates, you get more 2nd dates.