I Got A Stripper’s Number. Should I Text Her?

I Got A Stripper's Number. Should I Text Her?

The night at the strip club with your buddies was electric.

You had such a ball.

Having consumed your fair share of alcohol, you were inebriated, and found yourself abundantly more confident and talkative than you usually are.

There was one stripper that you connected with.

Yes, she was a great dancer and you had private sessions with her, but the connection wasn’t solely on a sensual level.

You talked about regular stuff like movies, friends, family, travel, etc.

She seemed so chill.

Yes, you spent seriously good money on her but she was worth it.

When you asked her about whether she would like to go out on a date, she didn’t hesitate in agreeing to it.

She gave you her number with a lot of enthusiasm, telling you that she was excited for it.

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Her entire vibe felt so genuine and got you excited about the prospect of going out on said date with her.

Now that you have had some time to replay the night at the strip club in your mind, you are stuck on whether you should text her.

You want to, but you are doubtful about her authenticity.

When you are in a haze of alcohol consumption, believing she likes you is easy to do.

Now that you are sober, you don’t know how to go about this.

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Should you text her?

Yes, you should.

It felt like you connected with her at the strip club, and she enthusiastically gave you her phone number after a conversation that went much further than how much of a great dancer she was.

Given this, it is worth it to text her.

That being said, there is a caveat.

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She is a stripper.

Way to go stating the obvious.

No, seriously, you have to recognize what comes with this.

Strippers complain that whenever they date a guy who isn’t involved in the industry in any way, in due course, the guy asks the stripper to stop stripping, out of jealousy.

It’s human nature.

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The man doesn’t want to keep sharing his girlfriend with drooling men at the strip club she works at.

Keep this in mind should you decide to text her.

If you two hit it off, you must be prepared for what a relationship with a stripper entails.

For now, texting her lets you know whether she was serious about going out on a date with you.

The good news is that strippers aren’t in the habit of giving out their phone numbers to their customers.

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Many strippers actually make it a point to avoid giving out their phone numbers to their customers and dating said customers.

It keeps strippers from mixing business with pleasure.

And given how many guys beg strippers for their phone numbers at strip clubs to no avail, you are in rare company.

Don’t make the mistake of overthinking whether you should text her.

Taking too long to text her runs the risk that she forgets about you.

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It doesn’t do you any good to text her in a week or so.

Text her while you are fresh in her memory.

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