Tell a girl you like her face to face, rather than through text or a phone call.
Texting or calling, makes her feel like you didn’t have the courage to tell her face to face.
Girls like guys who are assertive, who aren’t afraid to go for what they want.
When you tell her face to face, you are being assertive.
This is extremely attractive to girls.
She feels special, being that you picked her and had the courage to tell her to her face.
In sending a text, she thinks about how many girls you do this with.
The subliminal message you are sending is that she is nothing special to you, being that texting a whole bunch of girls requires much less effort and courage than telling a girl face to face that you like her.
She contemplates what number she is in that category.
A girl doesn’t want to feel like this.
When you tell her that you like her face to face, she knows that you are taking out the time and effort to address her personally.
This has a lasting and powerful effect, as opposed to the effect of a text or call from you.
A girl wants to see your face, listen to your voice, and observe your mannerisms in real life.
She wants to experience your body language.
The chemistry she experiences with you as you talk to her matters.
Some of this is revealed when you are face to face.
She doesn’t get this experience by staring at a text or listening to you on a call.
Telling her you like her face to face is a visceral and authentic experience for her.
She gauges how she feels about you at that moment.
Her emotions give her an idea of what she is feeling.
She knows when she is experiencing true excitement, as opposed to resentment.
When it is face to face, there is no piece of technology blocking her experience.
There is no technological buffer.
What she feels is in the spur of the moment.
A totally natural reaction.
That reaction is one of agreement or is one of noninterest.
Nonetheless, you get her authentic reaction.
Her true intent.
When you tell her that you like her through a text or a call, you deny her this visceral reaction.
She is denied her moment to gauge her feelings, being that a text or call is rather impersonal.
Avoid doing this.
Tell her that you like her face to face, so that she has her moment to decide whether she feels likewise, with nothing impeding her judgement.
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