The regular phone calls and text messages have drastically reduced.

The consistency of sex has plummeted.

The number of dates you go out on with each other has diminished.

Conversations you have with her are perfunctory in nature and it seems like she is restless to get off the phone.

She seems to be withdrawing in every area of your relationship with her.

Her behavior is such a contrast from what it was like in the early stages of your relationship with her.

She was a ball of energy.

From going out on dates to hanging out at home, she was exciting to be around.

Now, she is a shell of herself and you don’t know what to do.

You don’t want to lose her.

When it was decided to become exclusive, you had never been so happy.

It was a rare feeling for you.

Not many girlfriends have made you feel like she did, the closest comparison being your first love from high school.

You don’t want this feeling to go away.

As far as you are concerned, no other girl is going to make you feel like she has.

This has you desperate on what to do.

Advice from family, friends and colleagues hasn’t worked.

She isn’t responsive to anything you do.

You have recently taken her out on dates that you thought would get her excited.

It didn’t work.

The few times you have been intimate with her in the last month, you introduced new techniques, the idea being to make the bedroom more exciting to her.

She was barely responsive.

It didn’t work.

You have bought her gifts.

It didn’t work.

You have given her a stream of compliments to hype her up, making it abundantly clear that you see her as the most beautiful girl in the world.

It hasn’t worked.

You are at a loss for what to do and getting desperate.

With each passing week she withdraws further.

When a girlfriend withdraws in a relationship, there is a reason for it.

She isn’t happy.

Normally, when she gets a sense that she isn’t happy about something, she wants to address it with her boyfriend.

These are the moments where she keeps asking to talk.

Think back to the past.

Do you remember how many times she asked you to have a talk with her and you brushed it off?

That is when the problems began.

Unfortunately, at this point in time, it could be too late.

This is a conversation you should have had with her weeks or months ago.

Notwithstanding, there is no harm in trying.

Stop with the guesswork.

Talk to her about what is going on and get the truth out of her.

Once it is out in the open, see whether she is inclined to work through it with you.

If she is, you have another shot at saving this relationship, but that lifeline is thin.

Guys make the mistake of letting up on their effort once the relationship improves in ensuing weeks.

He gets too complacent.

This complacency is the end of the line for his girlfriend.

She dumps you and there is no getting her back.