He is still interested to talk to you when he is communicating with you on a regular basis.
Also, when he communicates with you, he tries to have meaningful conversations with you.
In those conversations, he tries to learn more about you.
He asks you good questions and follows those questions up with more.
He seems to be excited to learn more about you and you really have his attention.
He truly pays attention to what you are saying.
He doesn’t keep cutting you off just so that he can talk about what he wants to talk about.
When you notice this kind of behavior from a guy, he is still interested to talk to you.
By communicating with you on a regular basis, he is showing that you are actually crossing his mind. He is actually thinking about you.
When he has long, detailed conversations with you, he is showing that he wants to get a better sense of the kind of person you are so that he can find ways to relate to you.
These are very strong signs that he is still interested to talk to you.
Another way that he shows that he is still interested to talk to you is when he wants to know more about the people in your life that you care about.
Even better, if he has shown an interest in wanting to meet those people.
These people could be family, friends or coworkers of yours.
When he is this interested in learning more about those people, he is showing that the people that matter to you also matter to him.
He is also trying to gauge the personalities and lifestyles of the people in your life so that he can get a better sense of the kind of person you are.
He also does this because he wants you to see that he is being genuine in his interest in you. He wants you to understand that he is coming from a sincere place.
Most people are a sum of the people who are around them and those who influenced them growing up.
That means that in order for him to truly get to know who you are as a person, he also has to know who has influenced your life through the years and also on a daily basis.
Hence, he inquires about the people in your life on a consistent basis.
When he is not interested to talk to you anymore, he will communicate a lot less than he used to.
When he does communicate, he will typically not want to have long conversations nor would he want to get into detailed conversations with you.
The conversations will be short and won’t have much substance.
Also, you will notice that when you do have conversations, the topics are related to him.
He doesn’t want to talk about what you are doing all that much or what you may want to do.
He will do his best to avoid conversations about meeting up or hanging out.
Even if you were to bring up your desire to meet up, he will find a way to navigate away from the question. He may quickly move on to another topic.
When it is that much harder for you to arrange meet ups with him, there is a good chance that he is no longer interested to talk to you.
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