I Know He’s In A Relationship. Should I Stop Trying To Win Him Over?

A guy that is in a relationship rarely leaves it on his own accord, given that they like the sense of familiarity and access to intimacy that a relationship provides.

I Know He's In A Relationship. Should I Stop Trying To Win Him Over?Putting in the energy into trying to get him to like you is rife with risk.

The risk that this doesn’t lead anywhere, leaving you exhausted and confused.

Ask yourself about what your end goal is.

A goal to get him to leave his girlfriend is futile.

Men aren’t prone to leaving their girlfriends, even when they are unhappy in the relationship.

As long as he stays with his girlfriend, he is showing that he has no intention to leave her.

The danger of continuing to talk to this guy with romantic intentions is in investing far too much of your time and emotion on a pointless goal.

When you are talking to a guy who is already in a relationship, you already know where his heart is.

It’s tempting to assume that he likes you.

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After all, you have great conversations with him and he seems to care about what you have to say.

As far as you are concerned, there is good chemistry between you.

He flirts with you too.

Nonetheless, all of this doesn’t change the fact that he is in a relationship.

If he truly wanted to be with you, he would have ended his relationship with his girlfriend a while ago.

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By now, he would have told you that he was done with his girlfriend and wants to focus his attention on you.

In doing this, the intent would be to get you to open up to him without impediment or doubt.

In reality, he has not ended his relationship, and you have been talking to him for a while now.

What does that tell you?

That means that he has no interest in ending his relationship with his girlfriend and being with you.

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Through his actions, he is clearly showing that he is quite happy where he is at.

It doesn’t matter what he has told you.

Giving you the impression that he wants out of his relationship, or he finds you so much more interesting than his girlfriend, has no bearing with germane action.

His actions are everything.

So far, he hasn’t taken any real strides to end his relationship with his girlfriend.

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This means that his heart remains with his girlfriend.

If you get sucked into believing that there is more of a romantic connection with him than there realistically is, you open yourself up to enormous heartache and disappointment.

I know it is difficult to avoid getting excited about how amazing you think your chemistry is with him.

Given prior events, you have latched on to the belief you are meant for each other.

Notwithstanding, if you don’t stop this now, you end up so emotionally demoralized that it negatively affects how you approach future dating prospects or relationships.

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Look elsewhere for romance.

Preferably with someone who isn’t in a relationship.

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