To get over your crush, work on your mind first.
Work on not allowing yourself to get carried away with thoughts about your crush.
A good way to work your mind and train it in this capacity is through meditation.
Spend a few minutes a day simply focused on your breath as you sit and meditate.
Be conscious of your thoughts while you meditate.
Whenever you notice that you are beginning to think about your crush, bring your attention back to your breathing.
Allow yourself to experience how you breath and how deep it goes.
This is excellent training for your mind.
If you practice this daily, you will eventually start training your mind to focus.
It will be the kind of focus that allows you to be present within your environment without allowing yourself to become distracted.
This kind of focus is what will help you go about your daily routine in a much more effective way.
It will allow you to be totally present to what you are doing and to be in total control of what you allow to get into your thoughts.
Now, there are lots of things you can do to stay busy.
However, you should ensure that you don’t overdo it.
This is the trap that you can easily fall for.
You may try to do so much at once just so that you can get over your crush that it becomes too overwhelming.
At a certain point, you just can’t keep up and this is when you will stop doing it.
You will just stop doing anything.
Once this happens, thoughts of your crush may easily come back into your life.
You may have put yourself at an even worse position.
To avoid a burn out, simply focus on one or two activities to start with in order to stay busy.
It is always best to focus on activities that you would typically enjoy doing.
This allows you to stick with that activity and not get bored too easily or too quickly.
What do you have a passion for?
Do you love art, sports, socializing, fashion?
Figure out one or two activities you have a passion for and start focusing on doing them on a daily basis.
If it is a sport, you can join a team that plays together on a regular basis during the week.
You will be training with them and learning with them.
This can help to keep you busy as you challenge yourself.
It also has the added benefit of allowing you to get to know new people in the process.
If it is fashion, you can start working on your own designs for clothing, shoes or whatever branch of fashion you enjoy.
This will engage a lot of your time and your intellect.
This is where you can become laser focused on working on your passion.
If you are more on the visual side of things as opposed to the art of fashion, you can start getting involved in fashion conventions, forums and parties.
You can find people online that have the same passion for fashion and strike up new friendships.
All of these moves will keep you busy.
As long as you are steadfast with them and you are mentally focused, you will ultimately get over your crush.
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