Should You Date A High School Dropout?

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Should You Date A High School Dropout?

You should consider what your goals and objectives are in life.

Dating a high school dropout may be detrimental to your goals and objectives in life when they are ambitious.

You really have to be cognizant of this.

Some people make the mistake of believing that the high school dropout may become ambitious in the future.

They make themselves believe that there is hope for this high school dropout to want more out of life and pursue loftier goals.

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The high school dropout may even tell them that this is what they intend to do.

However, the truth of the matter is that their history isn’t reflective of that.

They don’t seem to be that driven after all.

This is why you really have to gauge your emotions and what it is you are looking for in a relationship.

If you are simply looking for a relationship that is light and casual that you don’t expect to last for long, you would be able to get away with dating a high school dropout without coming out disappointed.

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If you are a driven person who is looking for a long-term relationship and someone to build a future with, you may have to strongly reconsider getting into a relationship with a high school dropout.

You should really pay attention to what this person is doing.

What kind of jobs have they had since they dropped out of high school?

Are they currently working on a career or simply doing a job to help pay the bills?

What kind of career do you have?

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Are you driven and motivated?

Are you constantly getting promoted?

When this high school dropout is sticking to a dead end job just to pay the bills instead of having a rewarding career, this is a problem.

It would be very difficult for you to feel like you have too much in common with someone who isn’t driven in their work or in their career.

It would be very difficult for you to maintain a healthy relationship with someone who is barely getting by paying their bills, if at all.

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This can create high stress in your life.

You have to consider all of the angles and be honest with yourself about what you are feeling.

If this is a high school dropout who is driven and is working hard on themselves and their career, they may be different.

However, you should still be careful in these instances.

Sometimes, this behavior can be kept up for only so long before the high school dropout gets lazy.

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They may suddenly quit on a dream just as they quit in high school.

Hence, you would really need to observe this high school dropout over time in order to determine whether they can sustain their efforts and ambition.

Make it an objective to figure out what kind of relationship you are looking for at this time.

If this high school dropout is charming, you may be tempted to keep them around. However, they may not be your best prospect for a long-term relationship.

010By Luke Iwuji, a dating coach and founder of DatingLogic.net. For the best professional dating or relationship advice, Book a Session with me.