If this guy you like is single and available, you should either let him know that you like him or ask him out.
This is your opportunity to take that step that puts you one step closer to what you want.
People often make the mistake of delaying because they are afraid that the other person doesn’t like them.
They are worried about rejection and the effect it will have on their current relationship.
They worry about how they would be able to look at this person in the eye from here on out or interact with this person’s friends.
They worry about whether they will be humiliated if they were to let this person know that they like them.
You can’t allow yourself to become full of questions.
These kind of questions are designed to cause inaction.
They are designed to make you feel so uneasy that you give up on telling this guy how you feel or asking him out altogether.
The truth is, you don’t really know how this guy will react to you.
All you have been doing so far is asking questions that have no real answer.
They don’t have an answer because they aren’t grounded in reality.
As a result, you create the answers to these questions yourself.
Being hesitant about this leads to negative answers.
Those answers would be designed to discourage you on a subconscious level.
Once you have answered all these questions in a negative way, you will not tell this guy that you like him or ask him out.
Do me a favor.
Don’t answer the questions.
They aren’t designed to help your situation but exacerbate it.
Besides, those questions couldn’t possibly be answered without action.
You would actually have to take real action in order to see whether you will get rejected.
You would have to take real action in order to discover whether your current relationship with this guy will change upon letting him know that you like him or upon asking him out.
You would have to take real action to see whether you will be or feel humiliated.
This means that you actually have to let this guy know that you like him or ask him out in real life to get your answers.
Understand that relationship is risk.
It is risk, as it is worth it.
You will have to be willing to take that bold step to go for what you want.
You will have to be willing to risk that rejection or that sense of humiliation.
You will have to be willing to understand that when you go for something, you are sending that kind of energy into the world.
You are making a bold step that only builds more character in you.
Were he to turn you down, you are better off for having taken a chance.
This way, there is no doubt.
This way, you can move on to someone else with the same level of courage and get what you want.
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