You and your boyfriend are about to break up when he is barely communicating with you or going out on dates with you.

You have to observe.

A drastic reduction in conversations and dates is a strong sign he is having those with someone else.

Either that or he simply wants to be on his own.

When he agrees to a date with you but keeps cancelling at the last possible moment, he is about to break up with you.

You are the one who initiates the most of the conversation or the dates.

When you are the one doing this, you are showing a lot of energy that isn’t being returned.

Even if he were to go on some of these dates with you, he seems bored and absent-minded.

It is almost like he is somewhere else or he just doesn’t want to be there.

These are all very powerful signs that your boyfriend is about to break up with you.

You should also consider how often he actually attempts to hang out with your family and friends as well.

He gives you every excuse in the book so as to avoid hanging out with them or going to a function where he knows they will be.

This is his way of beginning to create distance between himself and those you care about.

He knows that the less time he spends with your family and friends, the less likely he gets asked questions about how the relationship is going.

He doesn’t have to keep feigning excitement about his relationship with you or acting like the perfect boyfriend.

He gets to avoid questions about possible marriage.

He just doesn’t want to be around any of that because he knows that you aren’t someone he sees in his future.

Who he sees himself with in the future is important.

In rarely talking about the future with you, he is about to break up with you.

This is especially true when you know that he used to do this before.

In the past, he mentioned his future plans and included you in those plans.

He hasn’t done that recently.

When you bring up something about a future plan that included you that he had once mentioned, he brushes it off and changes the subject.

It was a question about a future trip that he had mentioned.

When you bring it up, he acts like he didn’t just hear what you said or he changes the subject entirely.

This is showing that he isn’t even trying to entertain the idea anymore and is trying to avoid conjuring that image in his head.

Another sign that your boyfriend is about to break up with you is in what he is doing in the bedroom.

He refuses to look at you in the eye anymore while you are being intimate or he gets it over with fast.

This is not typical of a guy that wants to be with you for the long-term.