Girls like guys who have an edge while simultaneously making them feel safe and protected.
Guys who are assertive and go for what they want is a huge plus.
These are confident guys.
Girls respond to confident guys.
A confident guy has a lot going for them and don’t need girls.
Yes, don’t need them.
It is alluring to a girl when a guy has a busy life.
He is constantly on his mission, whether it be for fun or professionally.
A guy who is busy with his hobbies and social life is a welcome challenge to a girl.
He is not going to be giving her the attention that she is used to from other guys who don’t have much of a life.
She reads him as a guy who exudes masculinity and strength.
This approach to guys is partly why most girls like bad boys.
There is a swagger and a level of confidence in them that makes it very hard for a girl to resist.
They love that he gets all this attention from other people in his life and that he speaks his mind and comes off as harsh at times.
You don’t have to be someone that you are not to get a girl to like you.
This leads to abject failure, being that the girl reads your deceit fairly soon, consequently labeling you as a fake.
At that stage, it’s over.
All that hard work you put into being someone you weren’t has now gone to waste.
Don’t be someone you aren’t.
Girls like guys that make them feel good, excited and a little nervous.
They want to get that rush of excitement when they see the guy or hear from him.
How he carries himself causes them to feel all these emotions at once.
When you learn to build your confidence and develop a strong streak of independence, getting girls to like you is achievable.
This doesn’t require that you change who you are.
You are growing and applying yourself to make yourself a better person.
Develop this attitude through believing in yourself.
Understand that you are a dynamic person that has a lot going for them.
Fill your life with passionate activities that puts you around others.
Believe in yourself and what you are capable of doing.
Challenge yourself to do things that you never have.
Climb that mountain.
Ride that motorcycle.
Learn those new dance moves.
Do what excites and compels you, strengthening your core as an interesting person that much more.
This makes you more of who you are, as you learn stuff about yourself that you never thought existed.
This is how you acquire confidence and independence and get girls to like you.
They like guys who have created a real life for themselves and aren’t waiting for a girl to save them.
That exciting world you create is irresistible to girls and they yearn to be a part of it, enticing them to like you.