You can start talking to your crush if you want to get close to them.
You can open up a conversation with them.
If your crush takes some of the same classes that you do, you can ask them about class and their thoughts about what was covered today.
Ask them what they think about the teacher.
Ask them if they like the class.
You are using a common topic to start conversation.
It would be easier for you to start with something the both of you can relate to.
Now, if you are shy and don’t want to open up a conversation with your crush, you could try making eye contact with them.
Whenever they catch your eye, you can smile at them or acknowledge them in some way.
This lets them know that you have noticed them and they may feel encouraged to open a conversation with you in the future.
You can also get close with your crush at school by getting involved in the same activities that they are in.
If you notice that they are in a particular club or organization, you could join it.
Ensure that you do have a genuine interest in whatever club or organization this is. If you aren’t genuinely interested in it, it will be a lot harder for you to stick with it over the long term.
Also, your crush may be able to read the fact that you have no genuine interest in the organization’s activities and they may be turned off by this.
When you start partaking in the same activities that your crush does, you will have a greater likelihood of your crush noticing you.
In these environments, you should always try to be energetic and enthused.
Your crush could be very encouraged by the fact that you are so energetic and set on what you are doing.
This alone could make your crush feel the need to get close to you and start up a conversation.
To get close to your crush at school, you can also start building rapport with your crush’s friends.
When you start building relationships with your crush’s friends, they will begin to like you.
They may ultimately introduce you to your crush.
They may even tell your crush about you.
They may start talking about how nice you are.
When you truly put in an effort to get to know your crush’s friends, you are scoring some very important points.
They may even invite you to do something with them outside of school.
Your crush may be at this event as well.
This would be where you could start interacting with your crush after a possible introduction from your crush’s friends.
You can also get close to your crush at school by actually physically sitting next to your crush or close to them.
Make sure that you are already at your sit by the time they are getting into class so that they have the opportunity to notice you.
When they notice you, you can make eye contact and smile.
At some point, your crush may decide to open up a conversation with you as they get used to seeing you.
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