Open up a conversation with your crush.
A crush who attends some of the same classes you do at school provides a natural opening.
Open a conversation with a topic that relates to the class.
Talk about the teacher.
Talk about something funny that happened in class recently.
Talk about what your crush likes about the class.
You are using a shared commonality to instigate conversation.
Too uncomfortable with initiating a conversation with your crush about class?
Establish eye contact with your crush more often.
Whenever your crush catches your eye in the hallway at school, smile and acknowledge them.
This is your crush’s cue that you see them.
As their comfort grows, watch for situations where your crush is repeatedly hanging close to your locker in the hallway, chatting with her friends.
This means they want you to say hello.
Uncomfortable with the idea of saying hello to your crush in the hallway?
Join a club or organization they are a part of.
Have genuine interest in the club or organization, otherwise your disinterest sticks out like a sore thumb, which turns off your crush.
Being in the same club or organization creates much better avenues for conversation between you without you having to initiate one out of the blue.
A task related to the club or organization brings you two together.
You need to talk to each other to do the task.
Right here, conversation is a must.
There is no need to come up with something off the top of your head.
The task alone is a conversation instigator.
From here, the rapport grows and soon, new topics outside of the task are brought up naturally.
Week after week, you learn more about each other, not just as members of the club or organization, but as unique individuals.
Don’t have the time to join a new club or organization in your school?
Get close to your crush by building a relationship with your crush’s friends.
When you build relationships with your crush’s friends, they are more prone to liking you as a person.
There comes a time where they are inclined to introduce you to your crush, who is part of their friend group.
Being that they like you, they have already told your crush about you, not knowing you have a crush on their friend.
This makes your crush like you as a person subconsciously.
After all, with her friends saying such glowing things about you, she is bound to like you too.
Now that you are part of their friend group, getting close to your crush is so much easier.
These friends invite you to parties, social events, dinners, sports games, etc.
All of these moments are further chances for you to get close to your crush.
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