Just be yourself and don’t try to do something that isn’t who you are.
Guys tend to get so nervous when they are contemplating approaching a beautiful girl.
They wonder if they should act a certain way. They wonder what words they should use that would be the most appealing.
They try to make things so much more complicated than they have to be.
Listen, you are in control of how you behave.
That is the one thing that you have complete control over in this situation.
You can’t allow yourself to give the impression that you are someone that you really aren’t.
If you went with this tactic, it is very likely that this beautiful girl will be able to tell that you are acting.
You have already lost her at this point.
Why would you want to already lose out on her before you have even given her an opportunity to get to know you?
You haven’t even put a smile on her face yet.
Your attitude should be totally natural.
You should look at this beautiful girl as a human being.
Yes, a human being.
A human being has flaws, mishaps and insecurities.
She does as well.
A big mistake that guys tend to make is they simply make this beautiful girl more than what she is simply because of the fact that she is beautiful.
They put this beautiful girl on such a pedestal that they begin to believe that the only way they will have a chance with her is to try to become someone that they are not.
This is a very poor approach.
Beautiful girls are human too.
They have days that they are unhappy, make mistakes, feel insecure and feel fear or anxiety.
They have all the emotions that the rest of the human race has.
They are no different.
Yes, they are beautiful and have probably been told that by many, but they are still human and thereby, still fallible.
You have to appreciate and understand this.
You have got to realize that putting a beautiful girl up on a pedestal will only make it that much more difficult to approach her.
Listen, your best bet at approaching this beautiful girl and succeeding is to show her that you haven’t put her on a pedestal.
Yes, you have to show her that as far as you are concerned, she is just like everyone else and isn’t anything special.
She has been told how special she is before by countless suitors who probably failed in their attempts to get her.
Yes, she has heard it all before.
Putting her on a pedestal or dazzling her with compliments isn’t going to score you any points.
If anything, it will turn her off because you wouldn’t be setting yourself apart from the rest.
What you should do is simply approach her as you would anyone else.
Introduce yourself and ask her for her name.
You have started the process of communication and this gives you an opportunity to start finding something to relate to.
You could talk about the fact that she is wearing a Green Bay Packers shirt and you are also a fan of the Green Bay Packers.
You could ask her if she saw their game on Sunday and what she thought about it.
Right here you have opened up conversation with absolute ease and not a single moment of exaltation in reference to her beauty.
This makes you different and gives you a solid chance with her.
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