You should, but you should also understand it.
Many people have the misconception that there can be only one “soulmate.”
This isn’t true.
You can have a lot of soulmates in life. The possibilities are endless.
The problem with people who believe that there is that one “soulmate” is that they spend their entire lives looking for that person.
Unfortunately, many relationships that they get involved in aren’t given their fair chance because with one mishap, they are back on the soulmate bandwagon.
They feel that due to the fact that something that shouldn’t have gone wrong in the relationship did, they have to go find someone else.
They tell themselves that this person couldn’t have been their soulmate because if they were, they wouldn’t have experienced such a problem in the relationship.
Now, they are back on the prowl searching for that perfect soulmate.
They meet someone that is spectacular.
They discover an incredible connection with this person and get into a relationship relatively quickly.
They believe that they have finally found that perfect soulmate.
This time around is going to be a lot better than before.
Nothing could possibly change the true destiny that they have with this newly found love.
Unfortunately, they may discover that this perfect and true soulmate has some anger or emotional issues.
Now, they are back on the prowl again looking for the perfect soulmate.
Here is the thing.
There is no perfect soulmate.
You have to learn to be with who you are with and work through problems.
There is no way you are ever going to go through a relationship that doesn’t have its ups and downs.
The problem with people who are so adamant about finding that perfect soulmate is that they simply don’t learn how to work on and tackle issues that arise in their relationships.
They get so attached to this notion of having a soulmate that the moment the relationship starts developing issues, they run or they ignore them until they can’t anymore.
This can’t be the way you approach your relationships.
A soulmate is a person that you have found a remarkable connection with that allows you to feel comfortable around them.
You want to share your life with them because it adds to your happiness.
This soulmate isn’t without flaws.
They will not be the answer to all of your romantic needs.
They may even annoy you from time to time.
However, they tolerate and are willing to accept you for who you are.
This is the kind of person that you should aspire to have in your life as a soulmate.
If you do everything right in the relationship but things don’t work out, it doesn’t mean that it was due to the fact that this person wasn’t your soulmate.
They were the right person for you at that time in your life and now you get to move on to someone else.
You are not moving on in order to find the perfect soulmate, you are moving on because you can’t stay still.
You have to keep moving as a human being and live life the best way you can.
If you are to meet someone new who happens to be amazing and you get into a relationship with them, they are the right person for you at that opportune time.
They may be there till the end but if they aren’t, they are one of many soulmates that you will have the opportunity to meet in your lifetime.
Not the perfect soulmate.
Simply the right soulmate for you at that particular moment in time in your life.
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